Top 25 Best Gay Sex Toys for 2021

Top 25 Best Gay Sex Toys for 2021

Last year we did quite a bit of sex toy, umm “research”? So, to set off 2021 we have decided to compile a list of the best gay sex toys we have tested so far.

What are “Gay Sex Toys”?

When we say “gay sex toys”, we are talking about the best sex toys made for men who have sex with men. These are toys designed with men in mind and help enhance for anal, prostate, and penis stimulation. They can be used solo or with a partner and range from beginner to advanced. Although readers often ask us for a difinitive list of the best gay sex toys, the following are not limited to gay men, and can be used for anyone looking to experiment sexually.

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The Boy with Balls is the best gay sex toy for anal play. This is thanks to its curved shape which contours perfectly inside when inserted. The penis tip also comes to a nice tapered point allowing for easy insertion. Moreover, the head is shaped to hit your prostate in the right spot.

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Boy with Balls Anal Dildo

If you are adventurous and are looking for an experience closest to the real thing, then this is the anal dildo for you.

Diameter: 1.5 in. (3.8cm)
Insertable-Length: 5.75 in. (14.6cm)
Features: Hands-Free Suction Cup 
Difficulty Level: Beginners (Some Experience)

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The Boy with Balls also comes in a vibrating variant. With the same dimensions and feel, but with an extra buzz.

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$47.42Add to cart


Platinum Silicone Dong

The Platinum Anal Dildo is a bit longer, girthier, and more “filling” than our previous pick. Made from Medical grade silicone, it is flexible and feels surprisingly realistic.

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We love this dildo for its versatility and customization. Depending on your experience you can opt for 6 inches, all the way to 9 inches! The balls at the base act as a realistic stopper, and the strong suction cup allows you to use it hands-free.

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The Platinum dildo series also features 3 different colors to choose from (Tan, Beige, and Brown). Best of all, all didldos comes with a 3-peice silicone cock ring kit. For the what you get and for the price, this set is another top pick for the best gay sex toys we have tested.

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3 of the Best Anal Dildos come in 3 colors: Beige, Tan, & Brown

Material: Medical-Grade Silicone
Diameter: 1.5in.
Length: 6in, 8in, or 9in
Insertable-Length: 5in, 7in., or 8in
Features: Suction Cup, 3-Cock Rings
Difficulty Level: Intermediate

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Prostate Massagers

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The P-Spot, or as it is more commonly referred to as the prostate, and can trigger your body to orgasm almost instantly. Prostate massagers are angled and shaped to target your prostate in just the right spot for the ultimate orgasm.

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Sonos Prostate Massager

Our top favorite prostate stimulator is the Sonos because of its design, build, feel and quality. It is made from a realistic, skin-soft silicone. Shaped and grooved with a targeted tip that contours against your prostate and provides pressure in the right spot.

It is also easy to insert with a nice grip at the bottom for a good amount of control. If this is your first time buying a prostate massager then you really can’t do much better.

Material: Medical-Grade Silicone
Diameter: 1in. (2.3 cm.) 
Insertable-Length: 4in. (10 cm.) 
Features: Targeted Prostate Tip 
Difficulty Level: Anal First-Timers

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AssGasm Cock Ring Plug

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The AssGasm is some what of a special blend of Prostate Massager, Anal Plug, and cock ring all in one.

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The AssGasm works by wrapping around the cock and balls, and inserting the prostate stimulator plug. As you move, the cock ring creations a push-pull action the gives you hands-free prostate stimulation.

The AssGasm has been an MQ reader pick for the past few years and still remains one of the best gay sex toys you can buy.

Material: Medical-Grade Silicone
Diameter: 1in. (2.3 cm.) 
Insertable-Length: 4in. (10 cm.) 
Features: Prostate Cock-Ring Combo
Difficulty Level: Anal First-Timers

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$31.74Add to cart

Prostate Play Starter Kit

The Assgasm also comes as a piece in a prostate starter kit that includes 4 of the best gay sex toys of the year:

  • Anal Beads
  • An Anal Plug
  • Vibrator
  • AssGasm Prostate Cock-Ring
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Because of the versatility, ease of use for beginners P-Spot massagers are easily one of your best gay sex toys you can get. You can check out a more complete list or prostate stimulators here.


Anal Prostate Vibrators

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Much like an anal dildo, a good anal vibrator should be well sized, and shaped for gay men. These make prostate vibrators among some of the best gay sex toys to buy. Shaped specifically to hit the prostate, and send targeted pulses to give you an orgasm above and beyond the other manual toys we have mentioned so far.

Billy Deep Prostate Vibe

In this category, the Billy Deep really does hit all the right spots, both figuratively and literally. Made from high quality silicone, with a 8-speed adjustable vibrator, sleek design and rechargeable battery, and waterproof. In the premium category, it is among the best gay sex toys money can buy.

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The price is well above anything else on this list, but for those who can afford it, the amount of fun you will have and the sheer new level or orgasm you will experience is well worth the price.

Water Proof & USB Rechargeable
Play time: Up to 4 hours
8 Vibrations Settings
Diameter: 1.1 in. (2.8cm) Length 3.9 in. (9.9cm)
Difficulty Level: Beginners

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Bfilled Delux Prostate Massager

The Bfilled Delux Prostate Vibrator is a modern, well-sized, high-featured prostate vibrator, which touts many of the same great features, but at a more affordable price point.

It comes with more advanced features like high-quality, medical-grade silicone as well as a dual motor, 6 deep vibration functions.  However, you miss out on the ergonomic handle and rechargeable batteries.

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MQ Reader Review:
“Very nice toy. Had a very intense orgasm with this anal vibe. This will get lots of use, I can already tell. Very satisfied and worth the price!”

Also, You may have noticed that the design is a bit different than the others on this list, and is make to stimulate your P-Spot which I can say works surprisingly well.

The Bfilled also has a simulating nub to massage your taint, below the balls for extra external stimulation. For the price and features, it is one of the best gay sex toys for the money.

Waterproof
6 Mode Vibration
Material: Medical Grade Silicone
Batteries: 2 x AAA (not included)

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King Cock Vibrator With Balls

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The King Cock With Balls is the absolute best anal vibrator in terms of realism and choice. The King Cock Series comes in 4 lengths and styles all giving a unique challenge and feel.

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This anal vibrator also comes in 4 different color options, for even more customization. The hands-free base is a welcome addition, and the skin-like material adds to the realism.

The King Cock is also Water-Proof, and Strap-on harness comparable for even more versatility. In terms of feel and performance, the King Cock is your best bet.

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Hollow Strap-Ons and Penis Sleeves

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These are strap-ons designed specifically for men, with a hollow dildo which you slide over your dick. This gives you extra length, width, or to give your partner a bit of adventure.

Strap-ons are a great way to add a bit of fun, or change up your sex routine. These are great for couples looking to add a bit of size, challenge and excitement into the mix.

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It is easy to strap-on and the hallow dildo provides a nice amount of suction to both keep you strapped in. They also give you a nice feel for both the person on top and bottom.

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The 7-inch size is also a nice challenge, but you can even move up to the 10 inch if you are feeling more adventurous.

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Fetish Fantasy Hollow Strap On Vibe

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The Fetish Fantasy line has a size, shape and style for almost any guy. The hollow design allows you to wear the strap-on like a penis sleeve.

The strap on comes in 4 different lengths, including 7, 8, 10, and 12 inches, as well as a range of colors. Each size also has an optional add-on vibrator which allows for even more stimulation,

For an guy looking for so extra length, or a rock hard strap on, the Fetish Fantasy line is our top pick.

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King Cock Hollow Strap On Suspender

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The King Cock Hollow Strap On Suspender System it the biggest, by far most extreme hollow strap-on. Ranging from 10 to 12 inches, these are some of the most extreme sex toys for those who want to “go big”.

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These dildos are so big that it includes a full body nylon shoulder straps that distribute the weight of this massive hollow dildo comfortably.

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MQ Reader Review:
When he got this for me it has added back an old flame in our sexual life. The first time I sat on it and had an orgasm, WOW. I felt like I needed to be scraped off the ceiling. We have now experimented with it in different positions and I know I love it, and I have seen that old smile on my hubby’s face when I climax.

The hollow opening lets your slide your dick in easily, and is comfortable to wear for extended sessions.

Length: 12 inches
Girth: 2.25 inches
Hollow Girth: 1.5 inches
Full Body Harness

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Butt Plugs

Whether you are bottoming for the first time, or looking to take anal play to a whole new level, butt plugs are an amazing tool! They help you train for anal sex and prepare your body for the real thing. Butt plugs are also a great gay sex toy option and come in a variety of sizes. Anal trainer kits let you start comfortably, and gradually graduate up to bigger sizes.

Colt Anal Trainer Kit

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The anal trainer kit is one of the top selling items on the MQ Store. And it is no secret why. The kit is perfect for first time anal practice and allows you to slowly work from a manageable 1 inch to a more realistic 1.5 inches. The plugs are also made from a soft material and have a very beginner friendly tapper to help you get started.

Material: Poly-Safe PVC
Diameter: 1in.-1.5in. (2.3cm. -3.8 cm.) 
Insertable-Length: 4in.-5.5in (10 cm. – 14 cm.) 
Features: 3 Staged Sizes 
Difficulty Level: Anal First-Timers – Intermediate

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Glass Anal Training Trio

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The anal trainer kit also comes in a glass variant. This is great for people looking for an all natural alternative, without the use of synthetic materials. This set is made from high-strength tempered glass that is certified for safety and durability.

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Tunnel Butt Plug

If you are a more advanced user, the XL tunnel plug is a must. Out of any other toys we have tested this is one of the best gay sex toys because it is a plug that grows with you.

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The hole in the center allows you to insert a larger toy and stretch to a longer size.

Or just using it solo is a joy and the hole allows for air flow and even lets you get fucked while using it!

If you are looking for something a bit different and a sensation you haven’t experienced before, I recommend giving the XL Plugs a try.

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Cock Rings

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If you are a first time sex toy user then cock rings are a great place to start. Although they wouldn’t entirely qualify as a “gay sex toy” cock rings are great to use for both solo and couples fun.

Cock rings are a simple sex toy and work by adding extra pressure to the base of your cock. This added tension makes your cock rock solid, your orgasms more intense, and can even make you last longer in bed. Here are a few of our favorite cock rings to get you started.


Pro Sensual Adjustable

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For first timers, the Pro Adjustable XL Cock Ring Set it easily our top pick. The changeable size is safe and easy to use and allows you find a size and tightness that works best for you.

The safety button on this set also helps to lock in your size. Also, the ring won’t loosen up over time. Best of all, you can take it off quickly and easily, or give your self a bit of extra breathing room if you are in a pinch.

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Adjustable Cock Ring 2 Pack

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Sensual Pro Set of 3

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If you are looking for a cock ring set more tuned to the more experienced user, then the Sensual Pro set of three is our top pick. The bands are made from a strong, stretchy, skin-safe black silicone and can be rolled on (meaning no pulled hairs or friction).

The three sizes let you pick a band that fits you best and move up as you get more practiced.

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Pro Sensual Cock Ring Set of 3

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Cock Ring Starter Pack

The Cock Ring Starter Pack lets you sample 4 different cock ring types, and experiment with a variety of styles and sizes. All together you get 9 cock rings, to help find the perfect size and feel.

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Male Masturbators

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Masturbators are a fantastic addition to a sex you collection. Male masturbators come in a variety of textures, materials and tightnesses.

If you have jacked-off too many times then you are probably getting bored of your left hand. Investing in a good, quality masturbator can really help to make hand jobs a lot more exciting.

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Even better, depending on the quality, you can have some fun that rivals the feel of the real thing. PDX is the name of the game when it comes to masturbators, and for a reason. To start, the materials are durable, and have a much better feel compared to the non-name brand products.

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You can feel the difference.

The modular design also makes it easy to clean. Overall, the experience is something that rivals the real thing. Pack in with a 10-Speed vibration you will really get your rocks off.

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Satisfyer Men Heat Vibration Black Stroker

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Looking for the latest and greatest, best of the best gay sex toy? The Satisfyer not only has 70 different vibration settings, it has built-in temperature control!

The top-notch build is IPX7 waterproof, has a fully USB rechargeable battery, and digital touch controls. All in all, this makes the Satisfyer the most high-tech toys on this list.

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Anal Enemas and Douches

For those looking to have anal fun, enemas are your best friend. Enemas work by shooting water into your bum, flushing out any surprises that might be sticking around. If hygiene is a big concern, then using an enema if the number one tool you can use to prepare for anal play.

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The Universal anal enema comes in 4 different sizes letting you choose a size that works best for you.

The smallest starts at 90ml, with the largest variant going up to a hefty 310 ml.

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The Universal enemas are comfortable and easy to use. The added bonus of a removable tip also makes it a breeze to clean up.

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Fresh Shower Enema

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Showerhead enemas are fast, effective, and can give you an extra deep clean. Just attach the hose to a faucet or showerhead and douche as deep as you want.

The smooth, black nozle head is easy to insert and comes with two lengths for extra deep cleaning. If you are planning on having longer, deeper, more advanced anal sex, then a shower enema is your best friend.

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Anal Lubes

Whether it be with a prostate stimulator, masturbator, or anal dildo, investing in a quality lube can be the difference between an amazing or uncomfortable sex toy experience. It doesn’t matter if you are a sex toy pro or first-timerusing a quality anal lube is a MUST.

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Pjur Analyse Me! Anal Glide

Pjur Analyse Me’s is our favorite lube for anal sex year over year. The super slippery silicone base is paired with a plant-based Jojoba anal relaxant which makes penetration easier and pain-free. This is ideal for people who are still beginners or have had problems with pain in the past.

MQ Reader Review:
Fabulous! – Analyse Me has to be one of the best lubes for anal sex ever! Silky smooth and helps make it easier to take either a toy or the real deal! Love this lube!”

Relaxant Type: Natural
Active relaxing Ingredient: Jojoba Extract
Relaxing Strength:
Lube Thickness Level: 4/5

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Anal Glide Relaxing Water Lubricant

Anal Glide is an MQ reader favorite, and one of the best-selling anal lubes of all time. As the name states, Anal Glide truly “Glides”. With a super slippery, extra slick consistency, this lube does an amazing job at reducing friction.

The included anal relaxant is more powerful and acts fast. The one-handed pump design also makes it seamless to apply or add more without breaking up the action. Overall, it is the best anal relaxant lube combo we have tested.

Active Relaxant Ingredient: Benzocaine
Base: Water or Silicon
Size: 2 oz (58 ml)
Relaxant Strength: ⭐⭐

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Anal Glide also comes in a Silicone base that is even longer-lasting and durable. This version has the same, built-in anal relaxant too.

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Max Relax Calming Anal Ease

For the most powerful anal relaxant, there is Max Relax. The first thing you will notice about Max Relax is the feeling of quality throughout, from the packaging to the gel itself. Unlike other options, this is a stand-alone desensitizer which will give you the most effective results.

Apply some relaxing gel first, then simply pair it with your favorite lube for the best results.

Active Relaxing Ingredient: Benzocaine
Relaxant Type: FDA Approved Synthetic Relaxant
Size: 1.2 oz (35 ml)
Relaxant Strength: ⭐⭐⭐

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XL Lube Shooter

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Another handy companion to the lube we mentioned above is a lube shooter.

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Lube injectors work like a syringe, allowing you to easily inject lube inside. They are a heck of a lot more effective than using a finger.

If you haven’t used one yet, you will thank your self later for making the switch.

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Sex Toy Cleaner

If you want to protect the hygiene and longevity of that nice, new toy, then picking up an inexpensive bottle of toy cleaner is a no-brainer. Toy cleaners help to disinfect your toy and is a necessary step after washing your toy with mild soap and water.

So above are just a few picks from our list of the best gay sex toys this year, and toy cleaner is a necessary companions for the sex toys we mentioned above.

Toy cleaners will also help prevent your toy’s materials from breaking down. They are the easiest way to stay clean and get the full life out of your toy.

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Toy cleaner is a great way to keep your toy fresh, hygienic, and odor-free.

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Best Gay Sex Toys Starter Kit

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We just covered A LOT of information about the best gay sex toys to get you started. It is definitely quite a bit to take in.

For those of you who are just getting started, I recommend checking out the Anal Sex Starter kit.

It has most of the items we mentioned already like including:

Best of all, bundled together you get a pretty nice discount of around $40. For those looking for a collection of the best gay sex toys we have gone over, it is a great option.

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You can also check out our Anal Dildo Starter Kit which comes with our 2 top-selling anal dildos, and all of the supplies you need to get started.  Our global shoppers can also get in our new Free Global Shipping.

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For more help choosing the best gay sex toys, you can read more of our in-depth buyer’s guides. We go into all different sex toy categories to help you find the right toy for your needs. For questions about buying these right toy, or any other inquiries, email us at: [email protected]. We are happy to help!




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There you have it – our list of the best gay sex toys for 2021. Did we leave anything out? Do you have any favorites of your own? let us know in the comments below. Also, be sure to follow us on YouTube or Facebook.

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