Best Gay Sex Toys of 2023 – 30 Toys Tested
We’ve ranked the top-selling, most popular dildos, vibrators, strokes, lube, and more. This is a list of the best gay sex toys you should add to your toybox this year.
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Best Gay Sex Toys
When we say “gay sex toys”, we are talking about sex toys for men who have sex with men. These are toys designed with men in mind and help enhance anal, prostate, and penis stimulation. They can be used solo or with a partner and range from beginner to advanced. We go over different types of gay sex toys to help you choose the right one for your needs.
Boy with Balls Anal Dildo
The Boy with Balls is the best gay sex toy for anal play. This is thanks to its curved shape which contours perfectly inside when inserted. The penis tip also comes to a nice tapered point allowing for easy insertion. Moreover, the head is shaped to hit your prostate in the right spot.
MQ Reader Review:
Love it Love it! – “I am a straight man that enjoys anal play and prostate stimulation and this little baby is not only perfect in design and texture but size and the perfect curve to reach my p-spot. The suction is great for thrusting.
Material: Medical Grade Ultra-flex PVC
Diameter: 1.5 in. (3.8cm)
Length: 6.5in (16.5 cm)
Insertable-Length: 5.75 in. (14.5cm)
Features: Hands-Free Suction Cup
Difficulty Level: Beginner (Some Experience)
$42.97Add to cart
The Boy with Balls also comes in a vibrating variant. With the same dimensions and feel, but with an extra buzz.
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$52.87Add to cart
Platinum Silicone Dong
We love this dildo for its versatility and customization. You can opt for 6, 8, or 9 inches! The balls at the base act as a realistic stopper, and the strong suction cup allows you to use it hands-free. The Platinum dildo series also features 3 different colors to choose from (Tan, Beige, and Brown). Best of all, all dildos come with a 3-piece silicone cock ring kit.
Material: Silicone
Diameter: 1.5in.
Length: 6in, 8in, or 9in
Insertable-Length: 5in, 7in., or 8in
Features: Suction Cup, 3 Free Cock Rings
Difficulty Level: Intermediate
$68.72Add to cart
Glass Blue Curved Anal Dildo
Glass toys are non-porous and free of synthetic materials. This makes them the most body-friendly of all materials. The Glass Dildo series is also made from high-strength tempered glass making them highly shatter-resistant making them some of the most durable and long-lasting toys you can buy.
The non-flexible design means that you can target the prostate with more pressure and precision than almost any other anal dildo. The curved body and bulbed head contour perfectly inside and are shaped to give you optimal prostate stimulation.
MQ Reader Review:
“This toy is a very slick glass probe and penetrates deep… It is very comfortable, and long. It is one of my favorites and has become my go-to toy.”
Material: Extra-Strength Glass
Diameter: 1.5in. (3.8cm)
Length: 6.5in (16.5 cm)
Insertable-Length: 6in. (14.6cm)
Features: Chemical-Free, Extra Firm
Difficulty Level: Intermediate
$44.97Add to cart
Prostate Massagers
The P-Spot, or as it is more commonly referred to as the prostate, can trigger your body to orgasm almost instantly. Prostate massagers are angled and shaped to target your prostate in just the right spot for the ultimate orgasm.
Universal Prostate Massager
The Universal Prostate Probe is made from realistic, skin-soft silicone and is shaped with a targeted tip that contours against your prostate and provides pressure in the right spot. It is also easy to insert with a nice ring grip at the bottom. The base also features a protrudes taint tickler to massage the outside as well. If this is your first time buying a prostate massager then you really can’t do much better.
Length: 4 Inches
Width: 1.25 Inches
Latex & Phthalate Free
Material: Silicone
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$41.97Add to cart
AssGasm Cock Ring Plug
The AssGasm is somewhat of a special blend of a prostate massager, anal plug, and cock ring all in one. The AssGasm works by wrapping around the cock and balls and inserting the prostate stimulator plug. As you move, the cock ring creates a push-pull action that gives you hands-free prostate stimulation.
Material: Silicone
Insertable Length: 4 in.
Width: 1.25 in.
Cock Ring Diameter: 1.5 in.
Cock Ring Anal Plug Combo
Difficulty Level: Anal First-Timers
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$42.87Add to cart
Prostate Play Starter Kit
The Assgasm also comes as a piece in a prostate starter kit that includes 4 of the best gay sex toys of the year:
Material: Medical Grade Silicone
Waterproof
4-Piece Prostate Kit
Prostate Vibrator Probe
Difficulty Level: Beginner-Intermediate
$79.88Add to cart
Anal Prostate Vibrators
Much like an anal dildo, a good anal vibrator should be well-sized and shaped specifically to hit the prostate and send targeted pulses to give you an orgasm above and beyond the other manual toys we have mentioned so far. This makes anal vibrators some of the best gay sex toys around.
Lelo Loki Prostate Vibe
The Loki is made from high-quality silicone, with a 10-speed adjustable vibrator, sleek design and rechargeable battery, and waterproof body. In the premium category, it is among the best gay sex toys money can buy.
MQ Reader Review:
Great Toy – “Okay, here we go. This is a great anal vibrator. It’s strong enough with its multiple speeds and goes deep enough with its length to give a guy a nice ride. I love to stick it in my ass while jerking off. Lube it up, slide it in, and go to town. It will give you an intense orgasm. I use it in my ass while jacking off. Believe me, this is worth the price.” – Mr. Meat
Water Proof & USB Rechargeable
Playtime: Up to 2 hours
Material: Silicone (Phthalate Free)
10 Vibrations Settings
Diameter: 1.47 in. (3.7 cm) Length 3.54 in. (9 cm)
Difficulty Level: Beginners
$229.97Add to cart
Satisfyer Heat Climax Smart Prostate Vibrator
The Satisfyer Heat Climax Smart Prostate Vibrator is a smart sex toy that comes with all the same great features of premium toys but at a fraction of the cost. The smooth silicone body is ergonomic and easy to maneuver thanks to the ring grip at the base. It packs 12 vibration modes, plus a built-in heating unit that can all be controlled from the buttons on the body, or controlled via the iOS and Android smartphone app. It can even buzz along to the beat of your favorite music. Overall it is one of the most feature-rich, best gay sex toys you can buy – period.
Material: Silicone
Smart Toy with Bluetooth Control via App
Heats up to 102.2 °F (39 °C)
12 Preset Vibration Programs
IPX7 Waterproof
USB Rechargeable
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$97.42Add to cart
Dr. Joel Prostate Massager
The Dr. Joel Prostate Massager comes with more advanced features like high-quality, medical-grade silicone as well as 8 deep vibration functions at a lower price.
MQ Reader Review:
“Very nice toy. Had a very intense orgasm with this anal vibe. This will get lots of use, I can already tell. Very satisfied and worth the price!”
You may have noticed that the design is a bit different than the others on this list, and is made to stimulate your P-Spot which I can say works surprisingly well.
MQ Reader Review:
“Very nice toy. Had a very intense orgasm with this anal vibe. This will get lots of use, I can already tell. Very satisfied and worth the price!”
Length: 6.25 in (15.9cm)
Width: 1.5 in (3.8cm)
Material: Medical Silicone
8 Speed Vibrator
Powered by 2 AAA Batteries
Waterproof
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$76.82Add to cart
King Cock Vibrator With Balls
The King Cock Series comes in 4 lengths and styles all giving a unique challenge and feel. This anal vibrator also comes in 4 different color options, for even more customization.
The hands-free base is a welcome addition, and the skin-like material adds to the realism. The King Cock is also Water-Proof and is Strap-on harness compatible for even more versatility.
Material: PVC Fanta Flesh
Suction Cup Base
Waterproof
Customizable Bend Angle
Multi-Speed Vibration
4 Colors, 4 Lengths to Choose From
3 AAA Batteries (not included)
$98.73Add to cart
Butt Plugs
Whether you are bottoming for the first time or looking to take anal play to a whole new level, butt plugs are an amazing tool! They help you train for anal sex and prepare your body for the real thing. Butt plugs are some of the best gay sex toys and come in a variety of sizes.
Colt Anal Trainer Kit
The anal trainer kit is perfect for first-time anal practice and allows you to slowly work from a manageable 1 inch to a more realistic 1.5 inches. The plugs are also made from a soft material and have a very beginner-friendly tapper to help you get started.
MQ Reader Review:
“This made anal play much more fun and easier than I could’ve ever imagined. I’d definitely recommend for those who might be skeptical about anal. Quality product, easy to clean, and works well. My new favorite!” – Chris
Material: Phthalate-Free PVC
Diameter: 1in.-1.5in. (2.3cm. -3.8 cm.)
Insertable-Length: 4in.-5.5in (10 cm. – 14 cm.)
Features: 3 Staged Sizes
Difficulty Level: Anal First-Timers – Intermediate
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$58.71Add to cart
Glass Anal Training Trio
The anal trainer kit also comes in a glass variant. This is great for people looking for an all-natural alternative, without the use of synthetic materials. This set is made from high-strength tempered glass that is certified for safety and durability.
Material: High-Strength Tempered Glass
Non-allergic, Non-porous, Easy to Clean
Small Plug: 4.55 in. by 1.15 in.
Medium: 5 in. by 1.35 in.
Large: 5.75 in. by 1.5 in.
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$69.97Add to cart
Tunnel Butt Plug
Out of any other toys we have tested the Tunnel XL Plug is one of the best gay sex toys because it is a plug that grows with you. The hole in the center allows you to insert a larger toy or even get fucked while wearing it!
The Hollow Hole also creates airflow for a sensation unlike anything else.
MQ Reader Review:
“This Tunnel plug is a lot of fun. You can pull it over things like a water bottle or a fat dildo or whatever you can think of! That is fucking HOT! The rubber is also very very soft and pliable, which makes insertion fun and comfortable too. I can swallow a 4-inch wide toy in my hole to put things into perspective. You might want to start with a smaller size to test the waters first.” – RubberButt
Material: Ultra-Flex Silicone and TPR Blend
Medium:Length: 2.5 in. (6.3 cm) Width: 2 in. (5 cm)
Large: Length: 3 in. (7.6 cm) Width: 2.2 in. (5.6 cm)
XL Plug:Length: 4 in. (10 cm) Width: 2.85 in. (7.2 cm)
Hollow, Look-Inside Design
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$54.72Add to cart
Hollow Strap-Ons and Penis Sleeves
These are strap-ons designed specifically for men, with a hollow dildo that you slide over your dick. This gives you extra length, and width, or gives your partner a bit of adventure. Strap-ons are a great way to add a bit of fun or change up your sex routine. These are great for couples looking to add a bit of size, challenge, and excitement into the mix. This versatility makes hollow strap-ons some of the best gay sex toys to choose from!
Dr. Skin Hollow Strap-On
It is easy to strap-on and the hallow dildo provides a nice amount of suction to both keep you strapped in. They also give you a nice feel for both the person on top and bottom.
The 7-inch size is also a nice challenge, but you can even move up to the 10 inches if you are feeling more adventurous.
Harness Size: Up to 40 in. (100cm) waist
Material: Non-porous PVC
Length: 7 In (17.8cm)
Diameter: 1.75 In (4.45cm)
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$79.94Add to cart
Fetish Fantasy Hollow Strap On Vibe
The strap-on comes in 4 different lengths, including 7, 8, 10, and 12 inches, as well as a range of colors. Each size also has an optional add-on vibrator which allows for even more stimulation, For a guy looking for so extra length, or a rock-hard strapon, the Fetish Fantasy line is our top pick.
MQ Reader Review:
I have a problem with maintaining erections due to some medical problems. This product has brought joy back into our sex life. We have the other one without the vibrator and this just gives us an added experience. Thank you very much
Length: 7, 8, 10, or 12 inches
Fit Most Body Harness
Optional Vibration
Material: PVC
Colors: Beige, Brown, or Black
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$86.81Add to cart
King Cock Hollow Strap On Suspender
The King Cock Hollow Strap-On Suspender System is the biggest, by far most extreme hollow strap-on. Ranging from 10 to 12 inches, these are some of the most extreme sex toys for those who want to “go big”. These dildos are so big that it includes a full-body nylon shoulder straps that distribute the weight of this massive hollow dildo comfortably.
MQ Reader Review:
When he got this for me it has added back an old flame in our sexual life. The first time I sat on it and had an orgasm, WOW. I felt like I needed to be scraped off the ceiling. We have now experimented with it in different positions and I know I love it, and I have seen that old smile on my hubby’s face when I climax.
Full Body Suspender Harness
Material: Nylon Waist Strap, PVC Cock
Length: 10 in. (25.4 cm) or 12 in. (30.5 cm)
Width: 2 in. (5 cm)
Cavity Size: 6 in. (15.2 cm) by 1.5 in. (3.8 cm)
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$164.87Add to cart
Cock Rings
If you are a first-time sex toy user then cock rings are a great place to start. Cock rings are a simple sex toy and work by adding extra pressure to the base of your cock. This added tension makes your penis rock solid, your orgasms more intense, and can even make you last longer in bed. Here are a few of our favorite cock rings to get you started.
Pro Sensual Adjustable Cock Ring Kit
The Pro Adjustable XL Cock Ring Set allows you to find a size and tightness that works best for you. Best of all, the quick-release button lets you take it off quickly and easily, or give yourself a bit of extra breathing room if you are in a pinch.
Material: Silicone Band
Diameter: Variable (up to 4 in.)
Level: First-Timers
Diameter: Up to 4 in. (10cm)
Cock Ring Set of 2
Quick Release Button
Double Cock-Ball Lasso
$29.82Add to cart
Sensual Pro Set of 3
These cock ring set bands are made from strong, stretchy, skin-safe black silicone and can be rolled on (meaning no pulled hairs or friction). The three sizes let you pick a band that fits you best and move up as you get more practiced.
Material: Super Stretch Silicone
Pack of 3 Cock Rings
Smooth Roll-on Design
Size (mm): 22, 26, 30
Level: Beginner
$24.97Add to cart
Cock Ring Starter Pack
The Cock Ring Starter Pack lets you sample 4 different cock ring types, and experiment with a variety of styles and sizes. Altogether you get 9 cock rings, to help find the perfect size and feel.
Includes: 9 Cock Rings
1 Heavy Duty Silicone Band
2 Adjustable Cock Ring Lassos
3 Sizes Silicone Cock Ring Set
3 Super-Stretch Donut Rings
$79.41Add to cart
Male Masturbators
Masturbators are a fantastic addition to any sex toy collection. Male masturbators come in a variety of textures, materials, and tightnesses and are some of the best gay sex toys you can get. Investing in a good, quality masturbator can really help to make hand jobs a lot more exciting.
Man Squeeze Porn Star Anal Masturbator
Looking for a male masturbator that is realistic, that looks and feels like a real ass? The Man Squeeze Porn Star Masturbator series lets you live your fantasy to the fullest. The life-like skin material feels super realistic, and the hole and internal are tight and provide fantastic stimulation.
9 Men to Choose From
Adjustable Squeeze Suction
Ribbed Interior
Discreet Cup Design
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$118.72Add to cart
Satisfyer Men Heat Vibration Black Stroker
The Satisfyer the latest and greatest masturbator with 70 different vibration settings, and built-in temperature control! The top-notch build is IPX7 waterproof, has a fully USB rechargeable battery, and digital touch controls. All in all, this makes the Satisfyer the most high-tech toy on this list.
Magnetic USB Rechargeable Battery
70 Vibration Functions
Digital Touch Controls
IPX7 Waterproof
3-Stage Heating Up To 40C (104F) Degrees
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$98.71Add to cart
Anal Enemas and Douches
For those looking to have anal fun, enemas are your best friend. Enemas work by shooting water into your bum, flushing out any surprises that might be sticking around. If hygiene is a big concern, then using an enema is the number one tool you can use to prepare for anal play.
Universal Anal Enema
The Universal anal enema comes in 4 different sizes. The Universal enema is comfortable and easy to use. The added bonus of a removable tip also makes it a breeze to clean up.
Removable Enema Tip
Smoothed Tube for Easy Insertion
EZ-Squeeze Enema Bulb
4 Sizes to Choose From
$24.97Add to cart
Deluxe Anal Enema Premium Shower Kit
Showerhead enemas are fast, effective, and can give you an extra deep clean. Just attach the hose to a faucet or showerhead and douche as deep as you want. The smooth, black nozzle head is easy to insert and comes with two lengths for extra deep cleaning.
4.5 in. & 9 in. Silicone Nozzle Attachment
6-Foot Stainless Steel Hose
Attach Directly to Shower or Faucet
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$57.85Add to cart
Anal Lubes
Whether it be with a prostate stimulator, masturbator, or anal dildo, investing in quality lube can be the difference between an amazing or uncomfortable sex toy experience. It doesn’t matter if you are a sex toy pro or a first-timer – using quality anal lube is a MUST.
Pjur Analyse Me! Anal Glide
Pjur Analyse Me’s is our favorite lube for anal sex year after year. The super slippery silicone base is paired with a plant-based Jojoba anal relaxant which makes penetration easier and pain-free. This is ideal for people who are still beginners or have had problems with pain in the past.
MQ Reader Review:
Fabulous! – Analyse Me has to be one of the best lubes for anal sex ever! Silky smooth and helps make it easier to take either a toy or the real deal! Love this lube!”
Relaxant Type: Natural
Active relaxing Ingredient: Jojoba Extract
Relaxing Strength: ⭐
Lube Thickness Level: 4/5
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$44.71Add to cart
Anal Glide Relaxing Water Lubricant
Anal Glide, As the name states, truly “Glides”. With a super slippery, extra slick consistency, this lube does an amazing job at reducing friction, preventing fissures, and reducing pain.
Active Relaxant Ingredient: Benzocaine
Base: Water or Silicone
Size: 2 oz (58 ml)
Relaxant Strength: ⭐⭐
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$26.71Add to cart
The included anal relaxant is more powerful and acts fast. Anal Glide also comes in a Silicone base that is even longer-lasting and more durable. This version has the same, built-in anal relaxant too.
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$29.74Add to cart
Max Relax Calming Anal Ease
For the most powerful anal relaxant, there is Max Relax. The first thing you will notice about Max Relax is the feeling of quality throughout, from the packaging to the gel itself. Unlike other options, this is a stand-alone desensitizer that will give you the most effective results.
Active Relaxing Ingredient: Benzocaine
Relaxant Type: FDA-Approved Synthetic Relaxant
Size: 1.2 oz (35 ml)
Relaxant Strength: ⭐⭐⭐
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Lube Injectors
Another handy companion to the lube we mentioned above is a lube shooter. Lube injectors work like a syringe, allowing you to easily inject lube inside. They are a heck of a lot more effective than using a finger. If you haven’t used one yet, you will thank yourself later for making the switch.
Inject Lube Deep Inside
For Anal or Vaginal Application
Easy One-Handed Design
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$18.74Add to cart
Sex Toy Cleaner
If you want to protect the hygiene and longevity of that nice, new toy, then picking up an inexpensive bottle of toy cleaner is a no-brainer. Toy cleaners help to disinfect your toy and are a necessary step after washing your toy with mild soap and water. A disinfecting toy cleaner will also ward off dangerous bacteria and smells to help keep you and your toy safe.
Anti-Bacterial Sex Toy Cleaner
Toy cleaners will also help prevent your toy’s materials from breaking down. They are the easiest way to stay clean and get the full life out of your toy.
Toy cleaner is a great way to keep your toy fresh, hygienic, and odor-free.
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$19.78Add to cart
Gay Sex Toys Starter Kit
For those of you who are just getting started, I recommend checking out the Anal Sex Starter kit. For those looking for a collection of the best gay sex toys we have gone over, it is a great option.
3 Plug Anal Starter Kit
2 Cock Rings
2 Lube Injectors
Anal Enema (90ml)
Pjur Analyse Me Lube (100ml)
Toy Cleaner (100ml)
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$117.83Add to cart
Best Gay Sex Toys Delux Kit
You can also check out the best gay sex toys deluxe starter kit which comes with our 2 top-selling anal dildos, and all of the supplies you need to get started.
3 Plug Anal Trainer Kit
Boy with Balls Anal Dildo
Jellies Starter Anal Dildo
Anal Enema (90ml)
Pjur Analyse Me Anal Lube (100ml)
Toy Cleaner (100ml)
2 Lube Injectors
2 Cock Rings
$167.83Add to cart
For more help choosing the best sex toys for gay men, you can read more of our in-depth buyer’s guides. We go into all different sex toy categories to help you find the right toy for your needs. For questions about buying the right toy or any other inquiries, email us. We are happy to help!
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