Best Gay Sex Toys of 2023 – Top 30 Ranked

We’ve ranked the top-selling, most popular dildos, vibrators, strokes, lube, and more. This is a list of the best gay sex toys you should add to your toybox this year.

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Best Gay Sex Toys

When we say “gay sex toys”, we are talking about the best sex toys for men who have sex with men. These are toys designed with men in mind and help enhance anal, prostate, and penis stimulation. They can be used solo or with a partner and range from beginner to advanced. We go over different types of gay sex toys to help you choose the right one for your needs.

Boy with Balls Anal Dildo

The Boy with Balls is the best gay sex toy for anal play. This is thanks to its curved shape which contours perfectly inside when inserted. The penis tip also comes to a nice tapered point allowing for easy insertion. Moreover, the head is shaped to hit your prostate in the right spot.

Diameter: 1.5 in. (3.8cm)
Insertable-Length: 5.75 in. (14.6cm)
Features: Hands-Free Suction Cup 
Difficulty Level: Beginners (Some Experience)

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Boy with Balls Anal Dildo

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$42.97Add to cart

The Boy with Balls also comes in a vibrating variant. With the same dimensions and feel, but with an extra buzz.

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Vibrating Anal Dildo

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$52.87Add to cart

Platinum Silicone Dong

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We love this dildo for its versatility and customization. Tou can opt for 6, 8 or 9 inches! The balls at the base act as a realistic stopper, and the strong suction cup allows you to use it hands-free. The Platinum dildo series also features 3 different colors to choose from (Tan, Beige, and Brown). Best of all, all dildos come with a 3-piece silicone cock ring kit.

Material: Silicone
Diameter: 1.5in.
Length: 6in, 8in, or 9in
Insertable-Length: 5in, 7in., or 8in
Features: Suction Cup, 3-Cock Rings
Difficulty Level: Intermediate

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Beige Anal Dildo – 9 Inches

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Glass Anal Dildo

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Glass toys are non-porous and free of synthetic materials. This makes them the most body-friendly of all materials. The Glass Dildo series is also made from high-strength tempered glass making them highly shatter-resistant making them some of the most durable and long-lasting toys you can buy.

The non-flexible design means that you can target the prostate with more pressure and precision than most any other anal dildo. The curved body and bulbed head contour perfectly inside and are shaped to give you optimal prostate stimulation.

Material: Extra-Strength Glass
Diameter: 1.5in. (3.8cm)
Insertable-Length: 6in. (15.25cm)
Features: Chemical-Free, Extra Firm
Difficulty Level: Intermediate

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Glass Anal Dildo

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$44.97Add to cart

Prostate Massagers

The P-Spot, or as it is more commonly referred to as the prostate, can trigger your body to orgasm almost instantly. Prostate massagers are angled and shaped to target your prostate in just the right spot for the ultimate orgasm.

Sonos Prostate Massager

The Sonos is made from realistic, skin-soft silicone and Shaped and grooved with a targeted tip that contours against your prostate and provides pressure in the right spot. It is also easy to insert with a nice grip at the bottom. If this is your first time buying a prostate massager then you really can’t do much better.

Material: Medical-Grade Silicone
Diameter: 1in. (2.3 cm.) 
Insertable-Length: 4in. (10 cm.) 
Features: Targeted Prostate Tip 
Difficulty Level: Anal First-Timers

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Sono Prostate Massager

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$41.72Add to cart

AssGasm Cock Ring Plug

The AssGasm is somewhat of a special blend of prostate massager, anal plug, and cock ring all in one. The AssGasm works by wrapping around the cock and balls and inserting the prostate stimulator plug. As you move, the cock ring creates a push-pull action that gives you hands-free prostate stimulation.

Material: Medical-Grade Silicone
Diameter: 1in. (2.3 cm.) 
Insertable-Length: 4in. (10 cm.) 
Features: Prostate Cock-Ring Combo
Difficulty Level: Anal First-Timers

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AssGasm Cock Ring Plug

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$42.87Add to cart

Prostate Play Starter Kit

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The Assgasm also comes as a piece in a prostate starter kit that includes 4 of the best gay sex toys of the year:

Anal Beads
Anal Plug
Anal Vibrator
AssGasm Prostate Cock-Ring

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Prostate Starter Kit of 4

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$79.88Add to cart

Anal Prostate Vibrators

Much like an anal dildo, a good anal vibrator should be well-sized and shaped specifically to hit the prostate and send targeted pulses to give you an orgasm above and beyond the other manual toys we have mentioned so far. This makes anal vibrators some of the best gay sex toys around.

Lelo Loki Prostate Vibe

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The Loki is made from high-quality silicone, with a 10-speed adjustable vibrator, sleek design and rechargeable battery, and waterproof body. In the premium category, it is among the best gay sex toys money can buy.

Lelo Loki Prostate Massager

Water Proof & USB Rechargeable
Playtime: Up to 2 hours
Material: Silicone
10 Vibrations Settings
Diameter: 1.47 in. (3.7 cm) Length 3.54 in. (9 cm)
Difficulty Level: Beginners

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Lelo Loki Prostate Vibe – Blue

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$229.97Add to cart

Lelo Loki Wave Dual Prostate Vibe

The Lelo Loki Dual wave shares the same functions and design as the standard model but comes with extra features and a second massager, making it the absolute ultimate prostate massager. This model vibrates like before but also moves back and forth to milk your prostate.

Water Proof & USB Rechargeable
Dual Stimulator Design
10 Vibrations Settings + Prostate Push
Diameter: 1.47 in. (3.7 cm) Length 3.54 in. (9 cm)
Difficulty Level: Intermediate

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Lelo Loki Dual Wave Prostate Vibe – Black

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$259.97Add to cart

Dr. Joel Prostate Massager

The Dr. Joel Prostate Massager comes with more advanced features like high-quality, medical-grade silicone as well as 8 deep vibration functions at a lower price.  

MQ Reader Review:
“Very nice toy. Had a very intense orgasm with this anal vibe. This will get lots of use, I can already tell. Very satisfied and worth the price!”

You may have noticed that the design is a bit different than the others on this list, and is made to stimulate your P-Spot which I can say works surprisingly well.

Length: 6.25 in (15.9cm)
Width: 1.5 in (3.8cm)
Material: Medical Silicone
8 Speed Vibrator
Powered by 2 AAA Batteries
Waterproof

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$76.82Add to cart

King Cock Vibrator With Balls

The King Cock Series comes in 4 lengths and styles all giving a unique challenge and feel. This anal vibrator also comes in 4 different color options, for even more customization. The hands-free base is a welcome addition, and the skin-like material adds to the realism. The King Cock is also Water-Proof, and Strap-on harness comparable for even more versatility.

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Beige 10 Inch

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$98.73Add to cart

Butt Plugs

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Whether you are bottoming for the first time or looking to take anal play to a whole new level, butt plugs are an amazing tool! They help you train for anal sex and prepare your body for the real thing. Butt plugs are some of the best gay sex toys and come in a variety of sizes.

Colt Anal Trainer Kit

The anal trainer kit is perfect for first-time anal practice and allows you to slowly work from a manageable 1 inch to a more realistic 1.5 inches. The plugs are also made from a soft material and have a very beginner-friendly tapper to help you get started.

Material: Poly-Safe PVC
Diameter: 1in.-1.5in. (2.3cm. -3.8 cm.) 
Insertable-Length: 4in.-5.5in (10 cm. – 14 cm.) 
Features: 3 Staged Sizes 
Difficulty Level: Anal First-Timers – Intermediate

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Anal Trainer Kit of 3

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$58.71Add to cart

Glass Anal Training Trio

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The anal trainer kit also comes in a glass variant. This is great for people looking for an all-natural alternative, without the use of synthetic materials. This set is made from high-strength tempered glass that is certified for safety and durability.

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Tempered Glass Plug Set of 3

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Tunnel Butt Plug

Out of any other toys we have tested the Tunnel XL Plug is one of the best gay sex toys because it is a plug that grows with you. The hole in the center allows you to insert a larger toy or even get fucked while wearing it!

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The Hollow Hole also creates airflow for a sensation unlike anything else.

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Tunnel Plug Medium

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$54.72Add to cart

Hollow Strap-Ons and Penis Sleeves

These are strap-ons designed specifically for men, with a hollow dildo that you slide over your dick. This gives you extra length, and width, or gives your partner a bit of adventure. Strap-ons are a great way to add a bit of fun or change up your sex routine. These are great for couples looking to add a bit of size, challenge, and excitement into the mix. This versatility makes hollow strap-ons some of the best gay sex toys to choose from!

Dr. Skin Hollow Strap-On

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It is easy to strap-on and the hallow dildo provides a nice amount of suction to both keep you strapped in. They also give you a nice feel for both the person on top and bottom. The 7-inch size is also a nice challenge, but you can even move up to the 10 inches if you are feeling more adventurous.

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Dr. Skin 7 Inch Beige

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$79.94Add to cart

Fetish Fantasy Hollow Strap On Vibe

The strap-on comes in 4 different lengths, including 7, 8, 10, and 12 inches, as well as a range of colors. Each size also has an optional add-on vibrator which allows for even more stimulation, For a guy looking for so extra length, or a rock-hard strapon, the Fetish Fantasy line is our top pick.

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Black 8 Inch Vibrating

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$72.81Add to cart

King Cock Hollow Strap On Suspender

The King Cock Hollow Strap-On Suspender System is the biggest, by far most extreme hollow strap-on. Ranging from 10 to 12 inches, these are some of the most extreme sex toys for those who want to “go big”. These dildos are so big that it includes a full-body nylon shoulder straps that distribute the weight of this massive hollow dildo comfortably.

MQ Reader Review:
When he got this for me it added back an old flame in our sexual life. The first time I sat on it and had an orgasm, WOW. I felt like I needed to be scraped off the ceiling. We have now experimented with it in different positions and I know I love it, and I have seen that old smile on my hubby’s face when I climax.

Length: 12 inches
Girth: 2.25 inches
Hollow Girth: 1.5 inches
Full Body Harness

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Beige King Cock 12 In.

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$164.87Add to cart

Cock Rings

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If you are a first-time sex toy user then cock rings are a great place to start. Cock rings are a simple sex toy and work by adding extra pressure to the base of your cock. This added tension makes your penis rock solid, your orgasms more intense, and can even make you last longer in bed. Here are a few of our favorite cock rings to get you started.

Pro Sensual Adjustable

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The Pro Adjustable XL Cock Ring Set allows you to find a size and tightness that works best for you. Best of all, the quick-release button lets you take it off quickly and easily, or give yourself a bit of extra breathing room if you are in a pinch.

Material: Silicone Band
Diameter: Variable (up to 4 in.)
Level: First-Timers
Cock Ring Set of 2
Quick Release Button
Double Cock-Ball Lasso

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Adjustable Cock Rings: 2 Pack

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$29.82Add to cart

Sensual Pro Set of 3

These cock ring set bands are made from strong, stretchy, skin-safe black silicone and can be rolled on (meaning no pulled hairs or friction). The three sizes let you pick a band that fits you best and move up as you get more practiced.

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Pro Sensual Cock Ring Set of 3

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$24.97Add to cart

Cock Ring Starter Pack

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The Cock Ring Starter Pack lets you sample 4 different cock ring types, and experiment with a variety of styles and sizes. All together you get 9 cock rings, to help find the perfect size and feel.

Includes: 9 Cock Rings
1 Heavy Duty Silicone Band
2 Adjustable Cock Ring Lassos
3 Sizes Silicone Cock Ring Set
3 Super-Stretch Donut Rings

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Best Cock Rings Starter Pack

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$79.41Add to cart

Male Masturbators

Masturbators are a fantastic addition to any sex toy collection. Male masturbators come in a variety of textures, materials, and tightnesses and are some of the best gay sex toys you can get. Investing in a good, quality masturbator can really help to make hand jobs a lot more exciting.

Man Squeeze Porn Star Anal Masturbator

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Looking for a male masturbator that is realistic, that looks and feels like a real ass? The Man Squeeze Porn Star Masturbator series lets you live your fantasy to the fullest. The life-like skin material feels super realistic, and the hole and internal are tight and provide fantastic stimulation.

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Adjustable Squeeze Suction
Ribbed Interior
Discreet Cup Design

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Man Squeeze Stud Anal Stroker

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$118.72Add to cart

Satisfyer Men Heat Vibration Black Stroker

The Satisfyer the latest and greatest masturbator with 70 different vibration settings, and built-in temperature control! The top-notch build is IPX7 waterproof, has a fully USB rechargeable battery, and digital touch controls. All in all, this makes the Satisfyer the most high-tech toy on this list.

Magnetic USB Rechargeable Battery
70 Vibration Functions
Digital Touch Controls
IPX7 Waterproof
3-Stage Heating Up To 40C (104F) Degrees

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$98.71Add to cart

Anal Enemas and Douches

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For those looking to have anal fun, enemas are your best friend. Enemas work by shooting water into your bum, flushing out any surprises that might be sticking around. If hygiene is a big concern, then using an enema is the number one tool you can use to prepare for anal play.

Universal Anal Enema

The Universal anal enema comes in 4 different sizes. The Universal enema is comfortable and easy to use. The added bonus of a removable tip also makes it a breeze to clean up.

Removable Enema Tip
Smoothed Tube for Easy Insertion
EZ-Squeeze Enema Bulb
4 Sizes to Choose From

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Universal Enema Medium 160ml

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$24.97Add to cart

Fresh Shower Enema

Showerhead enemas are fast, effective, and can give you an extra deep clean. Just attach the hose to a faucet or showerhead and douche as deep as you want. The smooth, black nozzle head is easy to insert and comes with two lengths for extra deep cleaning.

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$57.85Add to cart

Anal Lubes

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Whether it be with a prostate stimulator, masturbator, or anal dildo, investing in quality lube can be the difference between an amazing or uncomfortable sex toy experience. It doesn’t matter if you are a sex toy pro or a first-timer – using quality anal lube is a MUST.

Pjur Analyse Me! Anal Glide

Pjur Analyse Me’s is our favorite lube for anal sex year after year. The super slippery silicone base is paired with a plant-based Jojoba anal relaxant which makes penetration easier and pain-free. This is ideal for people who are still beginners or have had problems with pain in the past.

MQ Reader Review:
Fabulous! – Analyse Me has to be one of the best lubes for anal sex ever! Silky smooth and helps make it easier to take either a toy or the real deal! Love this lube!”

Relaxant Type: Natural
Active relaxing Ingredient: Jojoba Extract
Relaxing Strength:
Lube Thickness Level: 4/5

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Pjur Analyse Me 100ml

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Anal Glide Relaxing Water Lubricant

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Anal Glide Water 2oz

Anal Glide, As the name states, truly “Glides”. With a super slippery, extra slick consistency, this lube does an amazing job at reducing friction, preventing fissures, and reducing pain.

Active Relaxant Ingredient: Benzocaine
Base: Water or Silicon
Size: 2 oz (58 ml)
Relaxant Strength: ⭐⭐

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$26.71Add to cart

The included anal relaxant is more powerful and acts fast. Anal Glide also comes in a Silicone base that is even longer-lasting and more durable. This version has the same, built-in anal relaxant too.

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Anal Glide Silicone 2oz

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$29.74Add to cart

Max Relax Calming Anal Ease

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For the most powerful anal relaxant, there is Max Relax. The first thing you will notice about Max Relax is the feeling of quality throughout, from the packaging to the gel itself. Unlike other options, this is a stand-alone desensitizer that will give you the most effective results.

Active Relaxing Ingredient: Benzocaine
Relaxant Type: FDA-Approved Synthetic Relaxant
Size: 1.2 oz (35 ml)
Relaxant Strength: ⭐⭐⭐

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Max Anal Relaxant 1.2 oz

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XL Lube Shooter

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Another handy companion to the lube we mentioned above is a lube shooter. Lube injectors work like a syringe, allowing you to easily inject lube inside. They are a heck of a lot more effective than using a finger. If you haven’t used one yet, you will thank yourself later for making the switch.

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$18.74Add to cart

Sex Toy Cleaner

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If you want to protect the hygiene and longevity of that nice, new toy, then picking up an inexpensive bottle of toy cleaner is a no-brainer. Toy cleaners help to disinfect your toy and are a necessary step after washing your toy with mild soap and water. A disinfecting toy cleaner will also ward off dangerous bacteria and smells to help keep you and your toy safe.

Anti-Bacterial Sex Toy Cleaner

Toy cleaners will also help prevent your toy’s materials from breaking down. They are the easiest way to stay clean and get the full life out of your toy.

Toy cleaner is a great way to keep your toy fresh, hygienic, and odor-free.

Universal toy cleaner 4oz
Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner 4.3oz

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$19.78Add to cart

Best Gay Sex Toys Starter Kit

For those of you who are just getting started, I recommend checking out the Anal Sex Starter kit. For those looking for a collection of the best gay sex toys we have gone over, it is a great option.

3 Piece Anal Plug Starter Kit
2 Cock Rings
2 Lube Injectors
Pjur Analyse Me Lube 100ml
Anal Enema
Toy Cleaner 100ml

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Anal Sex Starter Kit

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$117.83Add to cart

Best Gay Sex Toys Delux Kit

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You can also check out the best gay sex toys deluxe starter kit which comes with our 2 top-selling anal dildos, and all of the supplies you need to get started.  

Anal Trainer Kit (3 Plugs)
Boy with Balls Anal Dildo
Jellies Starter Anal Dildo
An Anal Enema for Clean-Up
Two Lube Injectors
Pjur Analyse Me Anal Lube 100ml
Two Free Cock Rings

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$167.83Add to cart

For more help choosing the best sex toys for gay men, you can read more of our in-depth buyer’s guides. We go into all different sex toy categories to help you find the right toy for your needs. For questions about buying the right toy or any other inquiries, email us. We are happy to help!

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