Best Male Sex Toys of 2021 for Better Sex

Best Male Sex Toys of 2021 for Better Sex

It’s a new year, and you know what that means – a new wave of male sex toys that you should be paying attention to.  Whether you are a sex toy first-timer, or a pro user, this is our list of MQ’s top picks, top sellers, and reader recommendations for the best male sex toys of 2021.

Best Male Sex Toys

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Male Masturbators

Best Male Masturbators Flashlights and Strokers

For those looking for the best of the best male sex toys, male masturbators are a perfect place to start. Sometimes referred to as flashlights or strokers these toys help you to enhance masturbation to a more stimulating and realistic experience.

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Pipedream Extreme Mega Grip Pussy Stroker

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In its category, the Mega Grip Pussy Stroker is as good as it gets.  The opening is made from patented Poly-Skyn which is realistic and feels almost life-like to use.

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The base has two suction grips that you can squeeze to give you a nice amount of control on airflow, suction, and tightness. The base is also equipped with a 10-speed vibration function with foes from a subtle tingle to an all-out full vibration.

If you want the best of the best, the Mega Grip is our top pick for the best male masturbator, making it one of the best male sex toys in its category.

10 Speed Vibration Motor
Realistic Pussy Design
Replaceable Batteries
Dynamic Suction Control Grip
Skin-Like Texture Interior

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$147.82Add to cart

PDX Elite Anal Male Masturbator

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You can also opt for the anal variant which is sold under the PDX series. It comes with the same build, design, and features, but with a tighter anal hole.

In addition, the PDX Elite also comes in a starter kit with everything you need to get started including lube, toy cleaner, and a 3 ring cock rings set.

Realistic Anal Feel
Includes: Lube, Toy Cleaner, Flesh Revive Cream
Bonus: Cock Ring Set of 3

Pdx Elite Mega Grip Anal Starter Kit

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$167.83Read more

Satisfyer Men Heat Vibration Black Stroker

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Are you perhaps looking for a masturbator that is a bit more high-tech? In terms of features and options, the Satisfyer might just be one of the best male sex toys we have tested. The digital touch panel lets you choose from a whopping 70 different vibration modes, styles, and intensities. Arguably its coolest feature is the variable temperature function which warms up to add even more realism.

What’s more, the body is IPX7 waterproof, and the battery is magnetically USB rechargeable. Overall, the Satisfyer is the most feature-rich, high-end male masturbator we have tested to date.

Magnetic USB Rechargeable Battery
70 Vibration Functions
Digital Touch Controls
IPX7 Waterproof
3-Stage Heating Up To 40C (104F) Degrees

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$89.72Add to cart

Optimale Endurance Trainer Ultraskyn Stroker

For those looking for a more traditional design, and just want a no-frills, high-performance masturbator, then the Optimale Endurance deserves a look.


Much like the PDX, this stroker comes with a soft silicone insert cupped by a hard plastic exterior grip.  The stroker is made from realistic, “Ultraskyn” material which is soft and durable.


Maybe one of the best design features is the “coffee mug” design, which when capped up and stowed away, does not attract much attention. In terms of quality and feel, the Optimale is one of the best male sex toys you can buy right now.

The Optimale has an optional Hands-free mount add-on
MQ Reader Review:
“Just Wow!  Get balls deep and push hard – the plastic cup presses the soft skin together and really squeezes the base of your dick. Then… Kaboom! I have owned half a dozen high-quality masturbators, and I like this one the best. At this price you can’t lose.”

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$93.63Add to cart

Cock Rings

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Cock rings are some of the best male sex toys for anyone who is just getting started.  They are small, discrete, and dead-simple to use, especially if you are looking to experiment a bit for the first time. Not only are cock rings some of the most accessible male sex toys, but they also offer some pretty great benefits.

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Cock rings work by adding pressure at the base of the penis.  This makes your erections harder, making you last longer, and thus increases the strength of your orgasm. Below are the best male cock rings you should be checking out this year.

Pro Adjustable XL Cock Ring Set of 2

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The Pro Adjustable was our top pick last year for the best cock ring for one reason – its simple design which gets the job done!

The quick-release button allows you to adjust the tightness to a comfortable strength, and lock your own size in place. This is a cock ring that will grow with you and can move to almost any size, especially as you become more accustomed to using it.

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The smooth ball head design also helps to avoid pinching, a common problem in other adjustable rings. Best of all, the quick-release button allows you to quickly put it on and off, especially if you are in a “tight” situation.

MQ Reader Review:
“Wow after so many rings that not only failed to fit, but didn’t stay snug enough to do the job, this product is everything that it claims to be! I was very pleased with the ease of use and design for wearing and removal.  The way it is constructed made it easy to use.  It is also snug and comfortable without pinching. The results were quickly visible making me have a better erection. Thanks for a better rise!”

Overall, the Pro Sensual Adjustable XL is our pick for the best cock ring for almost everyone, making it one of the best male sex toys of the year.

Material: Silicone Band
Diameter: Up to 4 in. (10cm)
Cock Ring Set of 2
Quick Release Button
Double Cock-Ball Lasso

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$24.82Add to cart

Alloy Premium Cock Ring

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If you are looking for a cock ring on the more “premium side”, or if you are a more advanced user who is not afraid to try a solid band, then getting an alloy ring is really the way to go.

Like most metal bands, there are advantages to going this route as metal rings give more pressure and tension.

Another added plus is the variable temperature, which adds a cool sensation that you slip it on, that slowly warms up to match your body, getting to a level that is comfortable, almost to the point that you even forget you are wearing a ring at all.


For the best premium cock ring, and one of the best male sex toys overall, the Alloy Cock Ring is worth your attention.

100% Aluminium Alloy Metal
Smooth Edges

Med: 1.5in (38mm)
Large: 1.75in(45mm)
XL: 2 in (51mm)

Alloy Cock Ring – Medium

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$34.86Add to cart

Cock Ring Sets

Cock ring sets are ideal for experimenting because they give you 3 different sizes to try out. This makes them some of the best male sex toys for beginners. You can also wear multiple bands at the same time around the balls, base, and shaft for even more stimulation.

Pro Sensual Cock Ring Set of 3


For a real bang for your buck, the Pro Sensual Cock Ring Set is really three rings in one. 

The three-staged diameters let you work up to a tighter size over time and even wear multiple rings at once. The ring shape is made from anti-tug silicone that won’t pull on skin and hairs, and can easily be rolled on and off.

MQ Reader Review:
“These cock rings work well, and create and enhance erections wonderfully. They are easy to get on and easy to get off – even after cumming.  Highly recommended.”

For a cock ring set that gives you a large amount of flexibility and freedom, the Pro Sensual Cock Ring Set gets all the best things right.

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$24.97Add to cart

Cock Ring Starter Kit

Best Cock Rings Starter Kit

If you aren’t sure which rock ring is best for you, then we recommend checking out the cock-ring starter kit.  It comes with the most popular cock rings on the site with a pretty nice discount.

Includes: 9 Cock Rings
1 Heavy Duty Silicone Band
2 Adjustable Cock Ring Lassos
3 Sizes Silicone Cock Ring Set
3 Super-Stretch Donut Rings

Cock Ring Starter Kit
Cock Ring Starter Pack: 4 Styles

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$69.41Add to cart

For a more in-depth guide to choosing the best cock ring, be sure to check out our full guide here.

Cock & Chastity Cages

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Cock cages are a game of control. They help you build trust, tension and add excitement to foreplay. Your cock cage can be worn at home or out and about. Remember, it is your little secret. Some of the best male sex toys are metal cock cages. These are high quality, smooth, durable, and comfortable to wear for extended periods of time.

Rikers 24-7 Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Cage

Rikers 24-7 Stainless Steel Locking Best Chasity Cage

Ready to get locked up (but don’t throw away the key!). If you are looking for the best of the best cock cages, then go with stainless steel. It is hygienic, durable, smooth, and comfortable to wear. The polished metal feels cool to the touch and helps to heighten the excitement from the moment you put it on.

The discreet lock is compact and built into the body. This makes the Master Series discreet enough to be worn out and under your clothing. If you want the best of the best, then the Master Series truly is the best cock cage you can buy.

Material: 100% Stainless Steel
Compact Design: Can Be Worn With Clothes
Ring Diameter: 2 in. (5cm)
Shaft Length: 3.25 in. (8.25cm)
Shaft Diameter: 1.3 in. (3.3cm)

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$219.91Add to cart

ManCage Chastity Cock Cage

Mancage Best Chastity Cage

Looking for something a bit more beginner-friendly and lightweight? Hard-Tempered plastic cock cages are the high balance between cost, comfort, and durability.

Made from high-grade polycarbonate, the ManCage is transparent, letting you see your cock locked up inside.

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The ManCage Comes in 3 Sizes

The ManCage comes in 3 unique sizes and 2 colors – Black and Clear. As a year over year top seller, and one of our most popular cock cages, the Mancage is truly one of the best male sex toys you can buy.

Material: Polycarbonate High-Strength Plastic
Light-Weight: Ideal for Extended Wearing
Clear Cock Peep Design
Sizes: 3.5 in, 4.5 in, 5.5 in.

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ManCage 4.5 in Clear

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$89.72Add to cart

Penis Sleeves and Extensions

Best Penis Extender Sleeves Cover

Penis sleeve cock extensions are like a cock enhancement! They can add length, texture, vibration, and give a whole different appearance to your natural penis. This makes penis sleeves some of the best male sex toys out there. Generally, a cock sleeve comes in a slide-on cover, or as a Hollow Strap-on extension. Both styles have their own advantages.

Performance Plus Silicone Penis Extender

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The Performance Plus is a realistic 9-inch strap-on that instantly increases your natural length and girth. Simply slide the sleeve over your penis and wrap the band behind your balls to hold it in place.

The inner hollow opening is 6 inches in length and 1.5 inches in girth. Just add a bit of lube and let the inner ribbings stimulate your cock as it is held on by your cock’s natural suction. Thanks to its realistic design and ease of use, The Performance Plus is our favorite cock sleeve to date.

Features: Wrap-Around ball strap
Material: Platinum Cured Silicone
External Length: 9 in. (22.85cm)
Girth: 2in. (5.1cm)
Internal Length: 6 in. (15.25cm)

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9 In. Beige Penis Sleeve

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$48.98Add to cart

Dr Skin Hollow Strapon 7 Inch

Dr Skin Hollow Strapon Penis Extension

Strap-on penis extensions are held in place with a body harness. This makes them more sturdy, and able to handle more intense sex. In this category, The Dr. Skin 7 Inch Hollow Strap On is the top hollow strap-on.


We love this toy for its realistic size, ease of use, and top-quality feel. The cock is veined and sculpted to look like the real thing. This has made the Dr. Skin an editor’s pick and overall best seller year over year.


Harness Size: Up to 40 in. (100cm) waist
Material: Non-porous PVC
Length: 7 In (17.8cm)
Diameter: 1.75 In (4.45cm) 

Dr Skin Hollow Strapon 7 Vanilla Main
Beige 7in Strap on

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$69.97Add to cart

Master Series Inflatable Hollow Strap On

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Looking for a Strapon that is realistic and versatile? The Master Series Hollow Strap on is one of the most fun, innovative, and overall best male sex toys we have tested this year.

The penis shaft is inflatable with a simple squeeze of the hand pump. Watch as your cock grows in both length and width. The Silicone cock is soft and smooth and an absolute pleasure to use.

Material: Silicone Dildo
Hand Pump Design
Uninflated: 7 in. (17.8 cm) by 1.75 in. (4.4 cm)
Inflated: 7.2 in. (18.3 cm) by 2 in. (5 cm)

Master Series Pumper Hollow Inflatable Strap On
Inflatable Strap On

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$97.81Add to cart

Penis Pumps

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Penis pumps work by creating a vacuum around your penis. This in-turn pulls blood to the head of your cock to give you harder, longer erections. There is a common misconception that penis pumps will make your dick bigger. What they CAN do is maximize your natural length and achieve the biggest, hardest erection possible. This makes penis pumps some of the best male sex toys out there!

Adam’s Rechargeable Penis Pump

Adam’s is the most well-built, high-tech, and high-performing penis pump we have tested to date. Whether you are a beginner or pro, this penis pump is feature-packed but also easy to use. Simply turn on the pump and pick from 5 different suction settings.

Adam’ s Rechargeable Penis Pump

The settings are visible via the Digital display which is backlit for easy viewing. The Vaccum motor is quiet yet strong, and the sealed base helps you achieve maximum suction. Did we mention that it is also USB rechargeable? The Adam is the perfect balance of features and simple design making it one of the best male sex toys, and best penis pumps you can buy.

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Digital Display Controls
USB Rechargeable
5 Different Pressure Presets
8.25-inch (21 cm) Insertion
3.08 In. (7.2 cm) Wide

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$124.72Add to cart

Performance VX2 Penis Pump With Pressure Gauge

As the name states, the Performance Pump gives you penis pump performance. Coming in a tried and true classic design, this pump is a refinement of the best in classic penis pump design. The pull triger pump is arguably easier and more ergonomic to use, and the built-in pressure gauge shows you the current suction.

Trigger Penis Pump With Built-In Pressure Gauge

The Vaccum sealed base is tight yet comfortable, and just a few flicks of the finger give you some impressive suction. As far as manual pumps go, you can’t do much better!

Trigger Handle Pump
Built-in Pressure Gauge
Air-Release Control Valve

Insertable Length: 8 in.
Diameter: 2.35 in.

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$74.32Add to cart

Prostate Massagers and Stimulators

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I know the concept of a prostate massager might scare some people away, but hear me out.  Your prostate, or sometimes known as the male g-spot, is rightly named.

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When used the right way, a prostate massager can create the strongest orgasm you will ever have (and we are talking on orders of 10 times better).

No joke.

In all seriousness, if you are in a bit of a boring point in your sexual life, using a prostate stimulator can be the first step in opening a door into a world of sex that you have never experienced before.

If you don’t believe us or want to learn more about your p-spot, check out our full walk-through on prostate play for first-timers here.

Sonos Prostate Stimulator

Sonos Prostate Massager

When it comes to buying your first prostate massager, the Sonos is about as close to perfect as it gets.  The Sonos comes in a beginner-friendly size that is gradually tapered to about an inch thick at is the widest point.

The stimulation nub area is made from super-soft, skin-safe silicone which is high quality, smooth, and slides in with almost no effort at all.

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The head is also shaped in such a way that hits your prostate in just the right spot with a good amount of pressure. The sculpted design adds a nice bit of extra sensation, and when fully inserted, can throw you straight over the edge.

The base handle is also equipped with a finger grip, which lets you “rock” it back and forth and offers a nice amount of control.

If you are looking for the best prostate massager, and another of the best overall male sex toys on the market right now, then get a Sonos.

You won’t be disappointed.

Material: Silicone
Insertable: 4 in. (10cm)
Ergonomic Prostate Tip

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$41.72Add to cart

Ass-Gasm Cock-Ring Prostate Massager Hybrid

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The Ass-Gasm is a wonder of a toy.  The best we can describe it is a cock ring, butt plug, two-in-one combo that will throw you off your feet! The cock ring wraps around the base of your cock, and gives a push-pull force when you move stimulating your prostate. 


And boy, does this double-time stimulation between the base of your cock and your p-spot really gets the juices flowing!

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What’s even better is that The Ass-Gasm is also versatile enough to be worn while jacking off, or when having sex.  It is easily one of the best male sex toys you can get in its category.

For those looking for a sexual stimulation overload that will literally have you leaking, then get yourself an Ass-Gasm.


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$31.74Add to cart

The Ass Gasm also coves in a vibrating variant for even more stimulation.

Like the standard version, the starter kit includes the plug, lube, and toy cleaner to get you started.


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$52.71Add to cart

Prostate Play Starter Kit

The Assgasm also comes as a piece in a prostate starter kit that includes 4 of the best male sex toys for prostate play. This kit includes:

  • Anal Beads
  • An Anal Plug
  • Vibrator
  • AssGasm Prostate Cock-Ring
Prostate Starter Kit

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$79.88Add to cart


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Mood Water Based Lube

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For the most versatile, do all lubricant, Mood covers all the right bases.  It is extra slippery, long-lasting, and has a great consistency.

The pump top is easy to use with one hand, which is especially useful if you are already into the game with your “hands full” and need to add a bit extra.

Best of all, the water base plays well with all sex toys, making it a great companion for all of the items we mentioned before.

MQ Reader Review:
“I really like the thickness of this lube. It stays where you put it and isn’t runny like most lubes. It worked really well for anal play too!”

Whether you are playing solo, or having sex, Mood is just a great lube all around.


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$19.78Add to cart

Swiss Navy Silicone

Silicone lubes have a few advantages over water lubes, mainly being that they don’t evaporate.

This means they never dry out making them extra long lasting, taking away the need to add more.

Swiss Navy is the best silicone lube we have ever tested.

I can tell you – you will get some pretty awesome results using it toys and for the real thing.

MQ Reader Review:
“This lube is great! Brings a new dimension to masturbation! Feels great and makes you never want to stop stroking it!”

If you are looking for a high quality lube that feels better than the rest, then Swiss Navy is your answer.

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$34.25Add to cart

Climax Bursts Tingling

Climax Bursts Tingling is a water based lube with an extra kick.  Not only is it a great lube on its own, it packs in some extra features we have rarely seen in other products.

As the name states, the included red sensation beads burst as you use it. This releases a tingling gel to give extra sensation which really add an extra level of stimulation to the fun.

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If you  have used regular lubes in the past, or have become a bit bored of your typical sex routine, Climax Bursts is an excellent way to add a bit of extra fun into the mix.

MQ Reader Review:
“I’ve tried all kinds of lubes, but I keep coming back to this one. It tingles enough to give you a sensation down there, but not so much that it becomes uncomfortable. The little beads pop and burst on contact, which was cool for both me and my boyfriend. They’re easy to use, and easy to clean up. I like that you don’t have to unscrew the top, also. (It just pops up.) I’ll definitely keep buying this one.”

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$21.47Add to cart

For a more in-depth look, be sure to check out our full guide of the best personal lubricants.

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There you have it.  These are our picks of the best male sex toys of 2020.  Have you tried any on the list?  Have any personal favorites we forgot to mention?  Let us know in the comments below and Follow us on YouTubeTwitter, and Facebook.

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