Douching for men is an essential step for any guy who wants to clean up before anal sex. With some proper care and a little bit of know-how, you can make preparing for sex easy and stress-free.
How Douching Works
Douching works by flushing water through the colon to help clean out any residue that might still be leftover, even after using the bathroom. This helps to make sure that your tubes are clean and ready before the fun starts.
Anal Enemas and Anal Douches
The most common tool used when douching for men is a bulb-style enema. This is typically a water pouch reservoir connected to an insertable tube.
Enemas come in a variety of shapes, styles, and sizes – but most serve the same function. My go-to enema and the style we will use in this walkthrough is the Pros Enema. For general use, one filled bulb of the Medium Size (160ml) enema will do the trick.
Removable Enema Tip
Smoothed Tube for Easy Insertion
EZ-Squeeze Enema Bulb
4 Sizes to Choose From
Douching for Men | The Complete Guide
Douching for Men – How to Use an Enema
Total Time: 30 minutes
Use the Toilet Before Douching
But really, use the bathroom, take your time, and clear things out naturally. Your enema is meant to take care of the small stuff, and little surprises that might have been left behind.
Fill Your Enema with Water
Next, remove the enema tip and fill your enema bulb with room temperature water. It is important that the water is not too hot and not too cold – your insides are extra sensitive. Don’t use soap that can cause unnecessary irritation – water will do the job just fine.
Insert the Enema Tip
Next, you want to re-attach the tip and the bulb and insert your enema tip about an inch, or 2 centimeters into your bum. Pro tip: It is best to use some lube on the enema tube to avoid discomfort. Simply lube up the enema and the entrance to your bum. This will make things go a lot easier.
Squeeze the Enema Bulb
Once you have the tip inserted, slowly squeeze the enema bulb. This will cause the water to flow inside. It is best to do the next step over the toilet to avoid any unwanted messes. Once your fully press the enema, DO NOT de-press or let go of the bulb! This will cause the enema to suck back in the dirty water.
Keep the Bulb Compressed and Remove the Tip
Instead, once you have pressed all of the water out, remove the tip, then release the bulb. For most people, one 160ml bulb is enough, but if you want to to clean deeper, you can repeat this process and add one or two more.
Wait and Release the Water
After you are filled to the brim, hold the water inside for 30 seconds to a minute. This will allow the water to soften any gunk inside and really let the douching to its magic. Next, while on the toilet, release that dirty water, by pushing out the same way as if you are gonna poop. Make sure to release all of the water.
Repeat Douching 2-3 Times
Finally, repeat this process one or two more times until the water comes out clean. It is important not to do it TOO many times as the water can cause dryness and irritation inside.
Estimated Cost: 20 USD
- Anal Enema
- Room Tempurature Water
- Anal Lube
Use An Anal Lube for Comfortable Douching
Applying a small amount of anal lube to your enema tip before inserting can make douching more smooth and comfortable. Not to mention, the same anal lube is essential for anal play.
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Relaxant Strength: Mild
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Practice with an Anal Sex Starter Kit
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This kit includes an enema, our best-selling Pjur anal lube and relaxant, 2 lube injectors, a complete anal dilator kit to stretch out, cock ring set, and an antibacterial toy cleaner.
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This kit comes with everything you need to get started and will save you a good bit of money.
Some Final Thoughts on Proper Douching
After you are finished douching, it is a good idea to wait for a good 10 to 20 minutes to let your body settle before you have sex.
Remember that douching is a great way to clean up before sex, but sometimes shit still happens. The simple fact is, the more you get used to the process, the better at it, and the cleaner you will become
How to Have Cleaner Anal Sex
Finally, as amazing as douching for men can be, it is best to limit using an enema to a few times a week, as doing it too often can cause irritation, and over time, reliance on it can make going to the bathroom naturally more difficult.
If you follow the above steps, then douching can be a great way to improve your sex life and clean up before the hand.
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