Welcome to the world of anal play. Maybe this is your first time experimenting on the backside – heck, it might be your first time ever using a sex toy! Well, I have some good news for you – you are about to open a whole new door of your sex life. To start off our guide about anal beads, I am going to give a bit of an introduction on anal play, and most importantly, what you all came here to find out – how to use anal beads.
– Anal Play –
If this is your first time with anal, let’s get a few things out of the way. First, Anal play doesn’t hurt (if you do it right). In fact, it should be some of the best feeling fun you have ever had!
Why Anal Beads?
For men, the inside of your bottom is filled with sensitive nerve endings, rivaling that of any other sex organ! Best of all, anal play helps to stimulate your prostate, a small golfball-shaped bump on the inside of your anal wall. Lucky for you, the prostate is also responsible for making you cum!
That means that with a little stimulation, you will shooting and cumming like you have never imagined.
For girls, the anal and vaginal wall actually press up against each other causing double time sensation, making you orgasm into overtime. Some girls actually say that they prefer anal play because of this!
This means that with the right amount of prep and a little know how to use your anal beads, you are in for some orgasmic, clean, and crazy feeling anal fun!
What are Anal Beads?
Anal beads just like they sound – a set of multi-sized ball shaped “beads” which when inserted help to give you an extra chill of sensation. Anal beads come in a variety of materials, sizes and feels ranging from high-quality beads made from soft polished metals and glass, to soft, flexible plastics and silicones.
Within these anal beads, you also get a variety of sizes to choose from depending on your experience level. These range from small, easy to manage beginner beads, all the way up to massive balls only the experienced players can take.
The anal beads that are suited best for you will really come down to what kind of feel you are going for and how big you are looking to go. Below are a few of the main types of beads, and the most popular with MQ readers.
The Best Anal Beads
Anal Fantasy Dulux beads are easily our top pick. They are perfectly sized and pop in smoothly. The beads also have a self-vibrator in the center which doesn’t require batteries. Best of all the Delux beads come in a starter kit with lube, cleaner, and the tools you need to get started.
MQ Reader Review:
“Size doesn’t require too much warm-up yet is still large enough to feel really nice and filling. The vibrations feel great when you walk around with them in you. Package includes free lube and cleaner which is nice. They feel so good! Overall I’d highly recommend these beads. As soon as I started inserting them the sensation just overwhelmed me it was so nice I had to get off, they feel unbelievable. Can’t wait to use them again, maybe wear them around the house for a bit.”
If you are a first-time buyer and are looking for an inexpensive, versatile and comfortable beads, Basic anal beads are the best buy. They are made from a soft, comfortable jelly silicone. There are also 12 inches long and gradually work up in bead size the further you go in allowing you to move at your own pace.
MQ Reader Review:
“I bought these a while back when my husband suggested them. We have been doing Anal Play for a while now, but were going to be having fun with a few people who were beginners. I brought these along, and SO glad I did. They are sized just right, graduated from small to a larger size on the end by the ring. The texture is sturdy yet flexible enough to bend in the best direction for peronal use. They are great for beginners because you can start out small and continue until most confortable. The ring fits perfect on one or two fingers for the perfect grasp and they are super easy to clean! I highly recommend these for both the advanced and the beginning users!”
For those looking for a premium set of anal beads, then look no further. These are the most popular beads on the Male Q store because of their quality material, multisized beads, and best of all are battery powered adding that extra punch of fun.
How to Use Anal Beads
To start you are going to make sure that you are all cleaned up. The fastest and easiest way is to use an anal enema or anal douche. These are pretty affordable and will make sure that you are fully cleaned up and ready to go before hand. You can check out my full article about using an anal enema and douching here.
Use an Anal Lube
Next, you are going to want to lube up! This is extremely important because your anal cavity does not have natural lubrication. If you want to be comfortable, and most importantly, feel good, then you will need to use a good lube. My go to is Swiss Navy Silicone because it is extremely slippery, which means your beads will go in easy, and best of all has the best feeling out of any lube I have tested (you can take a full list of the best anal lubes here).
Because your beads are going to go in deep, you will need to make sure to use plenty of lube deep inside. How do you do this?
Lubes shooters or lube launchers are your best friend for this kind of anal play because they will ensure that you have an even distribution of lube throughout and make applying lube much more simple than using a finger to try and shove it inside. They are fast, convenient, and really remove a lot of the mess – so do yourself a favor and pick one up beforehand.
After you apply lube on the inside, you will also want to make sure to use plenty on the anal beads. Once you are all lubes up and prepped its time to put those bad boys in!
Depending on the size of the beads you are going to want to take your time, especially if this is your first.
Push the beads in one by one, and you will notice them “pop” in as you go, this is the kind of sensation you are going for!
It might feel a bit strange at first, but as your body gets used to the feeling, it is this expanding and tightening of your anal opening around the beads that is going to give you the most pleasure!
As you work all of the beads in you can then slowly pull them out one by one. You will feel your opening expand and pop back down on by one. Go slowly, and the more you do this, the better it feels, until your butt will be so hungry for it that you won’t want to stop!
And that’s really it! Now you know how to use anal beads, but really this is just the beginning of your anal fun.