So you want to use an enema but don’t know where to start? We are here to give you the low-down and teach you how to use an anal enema for the very first time.
How to Use an Anal Enema
If you take the time to learn how to use an anal enema and practice proper hygiene before having anal sex then you will be in for some of the cleanest sex you have ever had! I cannot emphasize how much using an enema can improve anal sex. So my advice is to give douching a try!
Anal Enema How To Guide
Total Time: 20 minutes
It is important that your enema is comfortable and safe to use. Look for materials that are body-safe. There are a lot of different enema types and sizes, and choosing the right one comes down to personal choice. For this guide, we will be using a standard, medium bulb enema, which works for most people. You can view a list of recommended enemas at the end of this guide.
Before you use your enema, you want to get rid of as much as you can naturally. When using the bathroom, be sure to take your time and try not to strain yourself.
You can easily clean up in the shower with a finger and some warm water and mild soap. You want to make sure the entry area is clean before you use your enema.
To fill your enema, remove the enema tip to access the hole at the top of the bulb. Be sure the water is not too cold or too hot – room temperature water works best. When the enema is filled, reattach the tip.
This is one step to how to use your anal enema most people forget but is extra important! Using anal lube for insertion will help using your anal enema much more comfortable. We recommend using an anal lube for maximum lubrication and comfort.
Gently slide in the tip of the enema so that it is about an inch inside. Remember to go slowly and apply more lubrication if needed. When inserting, it is best to do this over a toilet.
As you compress the enema bulb, the water will begin to flow inside. This may be a very strange sensation. It is best to relax the abdomen and remain over the toilet for the duration of this step.Depending on how deep you want to clean, you can do multiple bulbs of water per flush. The more water you use, the deeper you will clean.
It is very important that you DO NOT release the enema bulb after it is fully pressed. The pressure difference will cause dirty water to rush back into the pouch. That would be bad. This is one step most people forget when learning how to use an anal enema for the first time.
With the bulb still compressed, remove the enema step. This will likely be a strange sensation, as you slide the tip out. Try to relax and move slowly.
Giving the water enough time to sit will allow any leftover residue to soften. Be patient and allow the water to do its work. The process of how to use an anal enema effectively largely comes down to patience.
Over the toilet, release any water and remaining residue, just as you would use the bathroom normally. Take your time and evacuate any remaining water.
Try to limit yourself to 3 flushes a session to avoid irritation. It is smart to wait 30 minutes to an hour after douching before having sex. This will allow any tissue irritation to subside, and give your body time to regulate. Also, pay close instructions on administering an enema while you are still learning. The process of how to use an anal enema is largely about practice and patience!
Estimated Cost: 25 USD
- Anal Enema
- Anal Lube
- Room Tempurature Water
With practice and patience, using an enema is pretty simple and effective. For those of you reading who don’t have one already, you might be wondering…
Recomended Anal Enemas
The best anal enemas are easy to use, comfortable to insert and help you to clean extra deep. In fact, choosing the right anal enema is maybe one of the single most important steps in learning how to use an anal enema effectively.
Univeral Anal Enema
The best anal enema for most people is the Pros Enema because it has a simple design that is safe, convenient, and easy to fill and clean.
Most importantly, the narrow tip is comfortable to use, and a bulb is made of medical-grade silicone. For the majority of users, this is the best douche to use when learning how to use an anal enema for the first time.
The 4 different sizes range from beginner to more heavy-duty situations. The pros Medium size is an enema that will do the job for most people.
Removable Enema Tip
Smoothed Tube for Easy Insertion
EZ-Squeeze Enema Bulb
4 Sizes to Choose From
Ribbed Red Anal Douche
The Red Ribbed Anal Douche is the more high-end enema option, especially if you intend to make douching a regular part of your routine. Heck, this enema was even featured on Keeping up with the Kardashians.
MQ Buyer Review:
Hands down the best Douche kit I ever used. Very easy to use and clean. The only thing to remember, is to keep pressure on the bulb as you remove it or it can cause back wash, but this is true with any douche it. As an added bonus, the extra attachment can also be used as a standalone toy.
The Ribbed Red comes with two different steps – one ribbed, and one thin. The ribbed design lets you insert in stages and provides an even better seal (plus a bit of extra stimulation). If you are looking to douche like the porn stars do, then the Red Ribbed Enema is the perfect fit.
Insertable Length: 4 in (10.25 cm)
2 Tubes Included: Ribbed & Slender
6.75 oz (200ml) Bulb
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Showerhead enemas are better suited for more advanced users. These work by attaching to your bathroom faucet or showerhead and shoot water directly inside.
Shower enemas can be much better at cleaning deep inside to flush everything out. If you are looking to use one of these, just be sure to take extra care about water temperature, flow, and pressure. But for the brave-hearted, shower enemas are a great douching companion!
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Cleanstream Pump Action Enema
We have to admit – we have never tasted anything like it. This innovative anal enema is truly one of a kind. With a one-hand pump-fed enema hose, this anal enema literally shoots water inside! This makes it somewhere between the traditional bulb enema and hose enema – but with a portable design.
This is one heavy-duty enema, with an absolutely huge 10oz bottle. This helps you clean extra deep, and shoot water directly inside. The one-handed pump design is also unlike anything we have tested. Overall, it is one of the most innovative douches you can buy.
10.1oz (300ml) Bottle
One Hand Push-Pump Design
Gentle Silicone Tip
Insertable Length: 4.5 in (11.4cm)
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Recomended Enema Anal Lubes
You need to have an anal lube for lubricating and inserting your enema. Otherwise, you can risk painful fissures.
For most people, Pjur Analyse Me Comfort is a great pair with your anal enema. It is slick, long-lasting, and safe to use with toys and for sex.
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How to Prepare for Anal Sex
For anal sex first-timers, you can also check our complete guide, How to Have Anal Sex For The First Time Here. In this guide, we go into depth about preparing, practicing, and having anal sex for beginners.
Anal Sex Starter Kit
If you want to practice anal sex on your own, then the Anal Sex Starter Enema Kit has everything you need to get started including:
3 Piece Anal Plug Starter Kit
2 Cock Rings
2 Lube Injectors
Pjur Analyse Me Lube 100ml
Toy Cleaner 100ml
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How to Douche Before Anal Sex – Wrap Up
Douching is a great way to clean up before sex. Although it is useful you should limit yourself to doing it a few times a week.
It can cause irritation to the colon wall if used too often and can also make you rely on it. This can make going to the bathroom naturally more difficult.
Remember to follow the above steps on how to use an anal enema closely and soon it will become second nature. You will notice an improvement in the quality of sex almost immediately.
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