So you want to use an enema but don’t know where to start! That’s why we are here to give you the low-down and teach you how to use an anal enema for the very first time.
The first thing you think when you hear anal sex probably isn’t “clean”. Well, push your preconceptions aside, because the truth of the matter is – it can be!
If you use an anal enema and practice proper hygiene before having anal sex then you will be in for some of the cleanest sex you have ever had!
Douching sounds a bit scary, but the honest truth is that learning how to use an anal enema makes getting ready for sex is easier, faster and much more convenient.
I cannot emphasize how much using an enema can improve anal sex. So my advice is to give douching a try!
How to Use an Anal Enema
Using an anal enema can be a strange experience for first timers. This is why choosing an anal enema that is comfortable and made specifically for anal douching is so important.
There are a lot of different types and sizes out there but when it comes down to it, your enema only needs to do one thing – clean you up before sex.
When you select your enema you want something that is simple to use, easy to clean, and will last you a long time.
I typically recommend the Pros Enema (pictured above) because it works well for almost everyone. It is relatively inexpensive at around $12, and the simple design is easy to disassemble and refill.
Even more, it is comfortable to use, and the tip it narrow and goes in easily. It is simple, no frills and gets the job done for not too much money.
The removable heads also make it easy to clean. All it takes is a bit of soap and water and a thorough rinse inside and out.
Best of all there are 4 different sizes to choose from from small all the way to XL for the more heavy duty situations. If you are looking for a no frills douche then you really can’t go wrong here.
If you want something that is a more multi-purpose use, then a high-capacity lube injector is also a good option.
Lube injectors are used for applying lube inside before anal sex, and are much more effective than shoving a finger in.
As an added plus, you can also use injectors with a fill of water and have the same effect as using an anal enema.
To make insertion a bit more comfortable I recommend using a bit of lube on the tip to make things slide in a little more smoothly.
Using Your Anal Enema for the First Time
Go to the Bathroom
OK, now let’s get into the details of actually how to use an anal enema for the first time.
To start, go to the bathroom naturally. You want to flush your system naturally as much as possible before you attempt using an enema.
When using the bathroom, be sure to take your time and try not to strain yourself.
When you are finished, wash up down there with your finger and some warm water. You want to make sure the area is clean before you use the enema.
Next, fill your enema pouch with room temperature water.
Do not make the water too cold or too hot, as this can be really uncomfortable (I know from experience).
Don’t Forget the Lube
Next, you want to apply a small amount of lubricant to the tip of the enema.
Generally, we recommend using Swiss Navy Water based lube as it is an extra slippery anal lube which works for most situations both for prep and in the bedroom.
Insert Your Enema
Gently slide in the tip of the enema with a bit of lube on the tip so that it is about an inch inside.
When you are inserting, I recommend doing it over a toilet just to be extra cautious.
Slowly press the enema bulb and as you do this the water will begin to go inside.
This is extremely important! Once you have pressed the bulb all the way, do NOT release the enema bulb.
The pressure difference will cause dirty water to rush back into the pouch. That would be bad.
Next, slowly remove the tip of the enema and let the water sit inside. Wait for about three to five minutes to allow any leftover residue soften.
Finally, push out and go to the bathroom again making sure that all of the water is gone.
Repeat this process one or two more times and you will ready for action.
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Things To Remember
Douching is a great way to clear up before sex. Although it is useful you should limit yourself to doing it a few times a week.
It can cause irritation to the colon wall if used too often and can also make you rely on it. This can make going to the bathroom naturally more difficult.
Remember to follow the above steps closely and soon it will become second nature. You will notice an improvement in the quality of sex almost immediately.
For anal sex first timers you can also check our in-depth guide, How to Have Anal Sex For the First Time Here.
Anal Sex Starter Kit
For anyone having anal sex for the first time we recommend checking out the anal sex starter kit. it has everything you need to get started including:
- An Anal Enema
- Two Lube Shooters
- Two Cock Rings
- Toy Cleaner
- A Bottle of Pjur Analyse Me Comfort Anal Lube
- A Three-Stage Butt Plug Starter Set
We cover all types of anal sex supplies below.
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