How to Milk Your Prostate in 10 Easy Steps

How to Milk Your Prostate in 10 Easy Steps

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I am going to let you in on a small but important piece of information that is going to open the doors to a world where your sex life is at its full potential.  The prostate, or what is sometimes referred to as the P-Spot is located on the interior of the colon wall.  Learning how to milk your prostate can help to send your sex life to new levels.

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You may have heard that anal sex or anal play can feel amazing.  The reason?  It is because when you stimulate the prostate – an organ essential in creating orgasms – it tigers your body to climax.

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Prostate massaging, or “milking” as it is sometimes referred to will cause your orgasms to become stronger than they have been before.

How to Milk Your Prostate

If you are skeptical, as most people are, my advice is to explore this new territory with an open mind.  Whether or not you consider yourself a bottom, or even a gay man, learning how to milk your prostate will improve your sex life in ways you never thought possible.

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Prostate Milking Complete Guide

  1. Buy a Prostate massager that fits your height


    Depending on how tall you are, your prostate will be located deeper inside.  This means that you will need a prostate massager that is the appropriate size and length to get the optimal stimulation. The above chart is a handy guide for choosing the right one for you.

  2. Use and anal enema to clean up before you start

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    The first thing I recommend doing before venturing into anything anal is hygiene. This will make you experience safer, cleaner and more enjoyable. Many people are initially turned off by the eww factor, but the reality is – if you clean up before hand then you should have no problem.

  3. Relax your body, relax your mind

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    If you have never experimented with anything anal before, then my best piece of advice is to relax.  Take a deep breath.  If you are tense and uptight things are going to hurt. If you are relaxed things are going to feel great! A great way to get in the right state of mind is to take a warm bath beforehand and calm your nerves.

  4. Apply an Anal Lube to your prostate massager

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    Once you are relaxed and cleaned out you want to get your lube ready. Apply a generous amount of lube to the prostate stimulator or your finger.  Also, add some more in and around your anal entry.

  5. Inject Lube for Smoother Insertion

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    Another handy tool is a lube injector. This lets you shoot lube directly inside and get an even application.  This will make using your prostate massager a lot more convenient and comfortable.

  6. Relax your anus and gently push out ward

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    With plenty of lube, you want to first inset the first bulb on the tip of the stimulator.  You want to insert it the correct direction, with the tip hooking towards the direction of your belly button.

    If you are using a finger, you will notice a small bump about the size of a Ping-Pong ball about a half inch in, on the wall closest to your belly button.  If you press in on is you will notice a strange feeling like you have to pee.  This means that you have found your prostate!

  7. Slowly insert the rest of the prostate stimulator


    Once your body is relaxed and adjusted, slowly move the stimulator the rest of the way in.  Once it is all the way in it may feel a bit strange, like you need to poop.  This feeling should pass in a few minutes. Once your body is adjusted it is time for the fun part.

  8. Start Milking Your Prostate!


    Gently massage the area back and forth while masturbating. This may feel strange, but your body should adjust after a few minutes.  You will likely have an orgasm much sooner and stronger than you usually do. In fact, most people say that this is the strongest orgasm they have ever experienced. Even if you are new or you feel uncomfortable at first, try to experiment and keep at it. Once you get over the initial discomfort the rewards will be well worth the effort.

Prostate Milking Supplies

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If you are doing prostate play for the first time, then you will need to prepare the essentials. The Anal sex starter kit packs all the tools you need to for the job.

It comes all of the tools we mentioned above including: An Enema, Anal Lube, Lube injector, 3 Piece Anal Trainer Kit, 2 Cock Rings, and Toy Cleaner.

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What is the best Prostate Massager?

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As we mentioned before, the creamer series prostate massager comes in 3 sizes, that are shaped and lengthened to perfectly stimulate your prostate depending on your height.

All three a sculpted and curved to stimulate your prostate directly, and overall gives a more individual experience.

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Another of Our top picks is easily the Sonos.  The soft, medical-grade silicone is comfortable yes durable, and the stimulator itself is sculpted in a shape which targets your p-stop better than any other stimulator we have tested.

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If you are looking to go to the next level, vibrating simulators will give you the strongest orgasm is a very short period of time.

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— Check out our list of best prostate stimulators here–

Once you get used to the sensation of milking your prostate you can try experimenting with a partner and trying different style toys for a different effect.  The key is to be adventurous and try something new.  If you give prostate milking a try and really learn how to milk your prostate then I can tell you that you will not regret it!

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If you have any questions about how to milk your prostate, or would rather ask us directly feel free to email us at [email protected] or write them down in the comments below!

These are our tips on how to milk your prostate. Do you have any tips of your own? Let us know in the comments below.

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    Carey Durtschi

    Really appreciate thanks for sharing the post !!!!!

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    Juan Luis Velasco

    Thanx for the advice. It works great! Any suggestions for anal lubing?