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How to Give a Blowjob: Sucking Dick for Beginners

How to Give a Blowjob: Sucking Dick for Beginners

You are about to suck a dick for the first time and your mind is racing – How do I even give a blowjob?  Can I fit it in all at once? Am I supposed to suck on it or blow? What if I suck?!? (pun intended). Well, that’s what I am here for, to make sure you don’t suck at sucking dick! So Just sit back and relax because you are about to get the 101 on how to give a blowjob.

 

How to Give A Blowjob

Foreplay

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To start, let’s take things slow.  I like to think that half the fun of any kind of sex is the build up and the tension.   This is what makes foreplay so much fun.

Don’t tear off his clothes and chow his dick down in one go!

Kiss his body, brush your hands over his legs and work your way down to your soon to be unwrapped birthday present. Finally, when his pants are finally off enjoy the moment!

 

You’ve earned it.  

 

So much of the fun is in the anticipation.

Getting Started

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Okay, so now his pants are off, and you have a beautiful dick staring you in the face.

~ Now what? ~

Well, let’s learn how to give a blowjob!  The first and most important step? Lubrication!  This is key if you want things to feel good so start by making things plenty wet.  Use your tongue and work your way up and down.

Now it’s time to go in. Take it slow and take only what you can manage.  It’s not worth choking or coughing.  Your comfort is just as important. 

I’ll even let you in on a little secret.

A good blow job isn’t about how deep you can go,  it’s more about technique.

So take only what length you feel comfortable. (Tip: use your hand as a stopper to limit how far in his penis can go into your mouth).

Now let’s get down to the dirty. If you want to give a good blowjob you need to keep three points in mind:

 

Rhythm, Suction, and Teeth

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Rhythm

 

To start, you want to pick a comfortable rhythm and stick to it.  Keep in mind that you could be giving this blow job for 15 seconds or 15 minutes!  It all depends on how long he takes to cum.

We aren’t trying to run a marathon here, so pick a speed that is comfortable and most importantly:

 

Stick to it!

 

Blowjobs are all about building to a tipping point, and changing your rhythm or stopping entirely can mean that you lose all the progress you made towards climax!

 

Suck Suck Suck

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Next, I know that it’s called a blowjob but you need to suck!

This is where most guys fuck up, so getting this piece right is what will make your blowjob feel amazing!

 

It’s one thing to simply have a dick in your mouth, but unless you actually suck then he won’t feel a thing.

 

Don’t overkill it though – find yourself a nice medium that feels good but not uncomfortable.

This kind of feeling is what we are programmed to respond to sexually (think of an ass or vagina).  The closer you can get to feeling like real sex the better.

 

Watch The Teeth

 

Finally, you need to keep in mind your teeth.  To put it simply:

 

Teeth + Dick = Pain

 

To fix this, tense your lips slightly over your teeth.  Again not too strong because you don’t want to exhaust your muscles, but just enough to block your teeth.

This will also apply a bit of pressure on his dick which if done right will feel nice.

 

Use All Your Tools

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Learning how to give a blowjob isn’t just about using your mouth, it’s also about using your whole body!

Rub your legs on his, lick on and around his balls, play with his dick, and always, always use your hands.

 

One rule of thumb I always follow is to keep your hands occupied.  You can use one hand on his dick move it up and down with your mouth.

You can also use your other hand to play with his nipples, balls, or rub his thighs.

Get into it and show some fire!

 

Safety and Hygiene

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Should You Swallow?

 

Swallowing comes down to personal preference and is something that YOU decide.  Depending on the person, swallowing can be sexy, and for people like me, is not their cup of tea.

Although chances of contracting an STD are relatively low when compared to other forms of sex, it is important to note that if your partner has an STD, then swallowing can increase your chances of catching and STD yourself.

 

If you want to play it the safest then you don’t even need you let him cum in your mouth.

 

Do what you are comfortable with and have fun!

 

(Note: Although it is easy to get caught up in STDs which are something to be mindful of, don’t let the worry occupy your mind too much.  If you practice oral sex, your risk of contracting most major STDs like HIV is relatively low.)

 


Read More: 

Can you get HIV from Oral Sex?

 

 


Things to Watch Out For

Oral hygiene is super important for you and your partner and there are a few things to keep in mind.

Brushing your teeth is a good way to remove bacteria and keep things fresh, but one thing you might now realize if you are just learning how to give a blow job is that brushing can also create small cuts in your mouth.

That is why it is important to wait at least 30 minutes after brushing before you have oral sex to be extra safe.  This also goes for canker sores too.

Open cuts can increase your risk of STDs, so you want to make sure you keep your mouth healthy and cut free.  This simple step can go a long way to keeping yourself safe.


Read More:  Stop Canker Sores Once and For AllHow-To-Treat-Canker-Sores

 

 


 

Oral Sex, blowjobs and sucking dick.  It all sounds intimidating at first but with a little practice and some mindfulness you will be giving some awesome head in no time!

 

 

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Now you know how to give a blowjob,  Do you have any tips for first timers? Any techniques that you are itching to share?  Post them in the comments below.

Loren Couse

I started MQ with the goal of answering all the questions I had about gay sex, dating and relationships when I was just starting out.If you have a question, suggestion, or are just looking to chat, feel free to message me at: info@maleq.org, check out our YouTube page, Facebook or Google+.

This Post Has 8 Comments

  1. Good day my dear Would really like to express that this blog is really brilliant. You’re writing is immaculate and i do hope you make more articles. Cheers 😉

  2. a 23yo gay ‘s tips on oral sex ?

    you have been enlighted in an early age ,bro

    hmnn…

    1. Just like all of the articles I write on this site, this is my advice. I am not saying these are be all end all or “facts”, but what I found to be helpful. If you have any tips of your own please feel free to share!

  3. isnt it kinda challenging to suck a dick without taking a break during the whole oral session ?

    i started to gag after 2 mins….

    1. Just takes some practice. The first few times is always a bitch. But if you are going for fun you can stop and go. If you are going for cum, then go go go!

  4. Sucking dick is amazing it’s nothing like him having control holding ya head pushing u up and down on the dick. I love that feeling of choking on the dick it turns me on and gets my pussy super wet. You gotta suck that dick like it’s ya last meal u ever going to eat ??

    1. Dam that sounds so hot the way Mia described choking on a penis mmmmm ?Would like to hear more details from you Mia might help out with my gf getting it done right ! Maybe you can explain it to her for me cause she’s hot but needs advice on sucking some dick

  5. Can’t agree about not swallowing. You always should or don’t let him cum in your mouth. I love it when a guy pumps his cum into my mouth, but I don’t really care for the taste of it. Yet, I found the fastest and best way to get beyond it is just to swallow it and, voila! It’s gone..

    We almost never read this in blow job advice columns. Use t(e tip of your tongue to flick on his frenulum. It feels device and will usually get me over the top fast.

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