Best Dildos for Women Reviewed in 2023

If you are buying your first dildo, or you are here for the best one out there, you have come to the right place.  Below we have compiled a list of the best dildo you can buy in 2023 from MQ staff favorites, reader suggestions, and top sellers in the MQ store.

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What is the Best Dildo?

The Boy with Balls is easily the best dildo you can buy right now. It has the perfect balance of shape, size, and length – and all of this for our recommendation. This is the best dildo for women and men.

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Boy with Balls Dildo

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Simply put, the Boy with Balls Dildo is a 6.5-inch wonder. It’s a manageable size suited for both beginners and experienced users.  The curved shape hits just the right spot and gives the perfect amount of pressure in the right places to send you over the edge.

MQ Reader Review:
Perfect size and shape for moderately experienced anal play. Luv the texture and ripples down the shaft. A good suction cup base keeps it in place. Nice tip goes in easily. Luv it!!!

The veins and head make it feel more realistic and add extra feeling when using it. Using the Boy with Balls it feels like having a real cock inside you. It is easily the best dildo of its kind.

Material: Medical Grade Ultra-flex PVC
Thickness: 1.5 in. (3.8cm)
Length: 6.5in (16.5 cm)
Insertable-Length: 5.75 in. (14.6cm)
Features: Hands-Free Suction Cup
Difficulty Level: Beginner-Intermediate

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$42.97Add to cart

Temptasia Reina Teal G Spot Silicone Dildo

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Smooth, sculpted, and ready to slide in, the Reina is a dildo made for a queen. The ergonomic shape is extremely comfortable to use and an absolute pleasure to enjoy. Made from medical-grade silicone it is durable and safe to use for even the most sensitive skin.

Material: Silicone
Strong Suction Cup Base
Smooth Glide Body
Insertable Length:
5.5 in. (14 cm)
Diameter: 1.4 in. (3.5 cm)
Fragrance & Phthalate Free

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Temptasia Prostate Dildo

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$41.42Add to cart

Mister Perfect Beige Dong

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Mister Perfect is rightfully named.  The narrow tip is easy to insert and the size and realistic shape are a “perfect” fit. The dildo is made from an ultra-realistic skin soft material that feels great to use. The material and build make it a more premium dildo.  It measures in at a fuller 6.75 inches insertable making a more satisfying experience. As for the quality, design, and overall feel, it is worth the extra price.

Material: Body Safe Felxi-TPR
Length: 8.5in (21.6 cm)
Insertable: 6.5in (16.5 cm)
Thickness: 1.5 in. (3.8 cm)
Hands-Free Suction Cup

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$65.25Add to cart

Loverboy Top Gun Tommy Dildo

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For a bit more girth and a bit more challenge, the Top Gun is a girthy dildo that is sure to fill you to the brim. It has balls that act as a stopper and a suction cup for hands-free use to spot.

MQ Reader Review:
I love this just right size not too hard and not too soft just right. Ah!ah!ah!ah! My words can’t express how this product made me feel just thinking about it makes me horny. I bought others somewhere else but not like this and for the price was a real steal. I love it! Love, love, love it!

Plus, the realistic shape and respectable size at 6 inches insertable to suit most users make it our top pick.  All-in-all it’s an easy choice and the top choice for most people looking to buy their first dildo.

Material: PVC – Phthalate Free
Length: 6 in. (15.24 cm)
Insertable: 4.5 in. (11.43 cm)
Thickness: 1.4 in. (3.55 cm)

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$34.78Add to cart

Vibrating Dildos

These are our favorite vibrating dildos, that are not only realistic but feel great to use. The best dildo vibrators feature a powerful motor, with adjustable speeds. These dildos offer the most in terms of realism and high-tech features.

Real Feel Delux Dildo Vibrator

For those looking for even more length, the Real Feel Deluxe series will fill you to the brim. This is one of the most realistic, feature-rich, and best dildo we have tested. With over 8 sizes and shapes to choose from, there is a “Mr. Right” for almost anyone.  The feel is realistic, and the vibration is a joy to use. If you want a dildo that will give you a challenge at 8.7 inches insertable, but also comfortable to use, look no further.

MQ Reader Review:
I don’t normally do this but this dildo is the best one I’ve ever used. Can ride this for hours if my butt would hold out! Not too big, just the right size and length. Couldn’t ask for anything better.

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Real Feel Dildo Comes in 8 Sizes and Shapes

Length: 6.5 in. – 12 in.
Insertable: 5.5 in. – 11 in.
Thickness: 1.75 in. – 2.0 in.
Hands-Free Suction Cup
Tru-Pulse Vibration

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Real Feel 10 in. Dildo

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$72.71Add to cart

Jeff Stryker Realistic Cock Vibrator

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Molded from the porn star himself, the Jeff Stryker is a dildo to behold. Boasting an impressive 10 inches long and 2.5 inches in girth, it is truly an impressive dildo.

The thick body and curve slide in comfortably to contour inside. The realistic, veins and texture mixed with a powerful vibrator are what really make this dildo stand out.

Length: 10 in (25.4 cm)
Insertable: 9 in (22.8cm)
Girth: 2.5 in (6.35cm)
Material: Sil-A-Gel
Vibrator + Suction Base
2 AA batteries (not included)

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Jeff Stryker Cock Vibrator

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$110.01Add to cart

Inmi Shegasm Pro Thrusting Suction Rabbit Vibe

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The Inmi Shegasm is an all-in-one vibrator designed specifically for the female orgasm. It is a triple-threat toy that vibrates, thrusts, and sucks all at the same time!

Length: 10 in (25.4 cm)
Insertable: 5 in (12.7 cm)
Triple Mode Simulation
Simultaneous Thrust, Vibration, & Suction
Waterproof & USB Rechargeable

As the name states, the Shegasms simultaneously stimulate the clitoris and vagina to trigger intense orgasms. There really is no other product like it. That’s what makes the Shegasm the best dildo for women.

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Shegasm Thrust & Suck Vibe

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$174.92Add to cart

Best Glass Dildo

For those concerned about chemicals or additives, glass dildos are some of the most natural and safe materials to use. These sex toys are super tempered, durable, and highly shatter-resistant to give you extra peace of mind.

Icicles Glass Dildo Series


The Icicles Glass dildo series is our top pick because of its durability and variety of shapes and textures. The extra firmness gives you more control, allowing you to target and add pressure in the right spot.  

MQ Reader Review:
This toy feels amazing!! The ridges from the ribbon touch you in many different places the feeling is wonderful. The feeling changes when you cool your toy in the fridge. Very Hot toy!!

In its category, the Icicles Series are some of the best dildos you can buy.

Material: Tempered High-Strength Glass
Thickness: 1.5 in. (3.8cm)
Length: 6.5in (16.5 cm)
Insertable-Length: 5.75 in. (14.6cm)
Stimulating textures

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$44.97Add to cart

Glas 7-Inch Realistic Curved G-Spot Glass Dildo

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For a more realistic feel, the Glas 7 is long and smooth but shaped like a real cock. The slight bulge on the head makes for easy insertion, and the balls at the base double as a convenient handle and stopper.

The rigid design lets you target your stimulation and direction, and the 7-inch length allows you to go in deeper. Not only is this toy a joy to use, but a jewel to look at. This dildo makes a gorgeous addition to your toy selection.

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$47.88Add to cart

Best Dildo on a Budget

You don’t need to spend a fortune to get a high-quality dildo. To get the best dildo for the price, we have narrowed down high-performing dildos under $35 dollars that still feel great to use. These are also some of the top-selling dildos on the MQ Store.

Dr Skin 4 Mini Cock

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A smaller toy with a lower price, the Dr. Skin Mini is a realistic dildo with all the same great features of its bigger brothers, but at half the price.

The 4-inch size is great for beginners and makes a great first-time solo toy. The included suction cup means it can be used hands-free and this little guy is even harness compatible.

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Dr. Skin 4 Inch Beige

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$21.82Add to cart

X5 5 Inch Cock

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Looking for a dildo that is realistic, well-sized, and a bit more filling? The X5 is the perfect fit for the average user who wants a bit more girth. The 5.75-inch length paired with a sizable 1.25-inch girth makes this dildo a bit above average where it counts.

Length: 5.75 in (14.6cm)
Insertable: 4.75 in (12cm)
Girth: 1.25in (3.17cm)
Material: Phthalate-Free, Latex-Free TPR
Hands-Free Suction Cup
Strap-on Harness Compatible

the quality material and suction cup base are a nice added touch and it’s hard to believe it is priced as low as it is for the amount of toy you get.

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X5 Thick 5 inch Beige Dildo

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$24.88Add to cart

The X5 also comes in a 7-inch vibrating variant. For an extra $15 you get an extra inch of length and a pretty nice vibrator.

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X5 Plus Vibrating 7 inch

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$40.36Add to cart

Naturally Yours Jelly Dildo

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As the budget option, the Naturally Yours dildo doesn’t disappoint. The Chrystal Jelly material is high quality, easy to clean, and comfortable to use. Best of all, at only $20 the Naturally Yours Dildo takes the spot for the best dildo on a budget.

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Clear Dildo

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$19.31Add to cart

The Naturally Yours Dildo also comes in a vibrating model too.

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Clear Vibrator

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$37.74Add to cart

Mambo Vibe Dong

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The Mambo Vibe is a dildo with a choice for those looking for some extra length.  Measuring in at 6.5 inches insertable and with a multi-speed vibrating function it’s almost as good as the real thing.

Size: 6.5 in by 1.5 in
Multiple-Speed Vibration
2 AA Batteries (not included)

MQ Reader Review:
Absolutely superb. Feels wonderful in the mouth, hands, and anywhere else. 😉 I was impressed with the size and the girth is very nice. The veining is a nice touch as well. It vibrates at excellent speeds and vibrates evenly throughout the entire toy. The jelly makes it flexible and yet still sturdy. It took longer to open the box than it did for me to cum! Definitely would recommend this. 😉

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First Time G Spot Vibe Pink

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Cock Vibe Series Vibrator

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If you are in the market for a vibrating dildo, the Cockvibe Series is our top pick. The vibration is strong, but not over-powering and the multi-speed function gives you a nice amount of control. This paired with a realistic shape and satisfying size of 9 inches, feels great to use.  All in all, the Cock Vibe is our top choice for the best dildo with a buzz.

MQ Reader Review:
My man bought me this dildo and it is the best one I have ever owned. Multiple orgasms and made me squirt several times. Very well worth the money!

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$42.71Add to cart

Temptasia Twist Silicone

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Last on our list (but not least) is the Temptasia Twist.  As our budget option, it is a simple silicone dildo in a small size that is discrete and travel-friendly.

MQ Reader Review:
Because I was looking for something fairly cheap but without losing quality, I wasn’t sure at first but I bought it anyway. Used it twice on the same day it arrived and I was pretty much hooked right away!

The Temptasia Twist comes in 3 sizes with the smallest at just under $30. For a full silicone toy this is already a great value!

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Temptasia Twist – Small

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$27.87Add to cart

For just a bit more money you can get all 3 sizes – a great way to experiment to find your perfect size.

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Temptasia Twist – Set of 3

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$74.88Add to cart

How to Clean Your Dildo

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Sex Toy Cleaner works by disinfecting your toy and giving it an extra deep cleaning. It’s try that you should always wash your toy first with soap and water. Spraying it down with an anti-bacterial spray after can help to increase your sex toy’s longevity and keep away any nasty smells.

Toy cleaner is a great way to keep your toy fresh, hygienic, and odor-free.

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Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner 4.3oz

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Use a Lube for Better Results

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For a smoother, more comfortable experience, use a quality lube with your dildo. This will give you extra lubrication and make things much more comfortable (and pleasurable).

Water-based lubes are your best bet because they are safe to use with all dildos and materials. They are also easy to clean up after. Our favorite water-based lube year after year is Swiss Navy thanks to its overall feel and durability.

MQ Reader Review:
Smooth: “When I tried this lube not only did it feel excellent, but it didn’t leave a sticky feeling afterward. It felt wonderful during sex. A little goes a long way and I will happily go back and pay for another bottle.” – Ron

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Swiss Navy Water 4oz.

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For more advice on choosing the best dildos on the market, be sure to check out in-depth buyer’s guides. We walk you through all the different sex toy categories to help you choose the right sex toy for your needs.

These are our top picks for the best dildo of 2023.  

Do you have a favorite that we didn’t mention? Dildo pros cons who is this?  Also, have you tried any of these dildos before? Let us know in the comments below.

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One thought on “Best Dildos for Women Reviewed in 2023

  1. I am a 19-year-old woman and my boyfriend bought me a 24-inch horse-cock dildo with a 2-inch diameter and a suction cup for attaching it to a floor or wall. I am able to take all 24 inches inside of my asshole with lube, and I have to admit it feels extremely intense as I rock my body back and forth, making it seem as if my asshole were being fucked by a horse. I am amazed that I can take all 24 inches, but I guess even a long thick dildo can slide through a petite woman’s rectum and into part of her sigmoid colon. I have been riding this dildo for 10 months now with absolutely no health problems. Has anybody else here experimented with a horse-cock dildo? If so, how much of the anal horse-cock dildo can be taken by you or your partner in terms of inches of penetration? And how does it feel for you in terms of intensity, pleasure, and pain?

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